How much of an effect does stress and anxiety have on erections?
I’ve been dating a girl for the last week and last night her and I were in her bed I was fingering her and she was playing with my dong but it wasn’t near as hard as it should be.. It would only go like 75% hard. I couldn’t tell how big it was because the lights were off but I know it wasn’t a full erection.. And I couldn’t get a full erection. Then this morning in the shower I tried to jerk off and I still couldn’t get an erection..
I am really stressing about finals for college next week and I was probably having some performance anxiety last night.. But could these be enough to not let me get it up?
Because if I get the opportunity to make love to her and this kind of thing happens I will never forgive myself, I don’t want to lose this girl over something like this..
Maybe if I get drunk that will ease some tension and I won’t have any problems.
But I am only 21! How can this be happening?