Help Please

3 months ago I received some news from the wifey that she wanted to separate. This devastated me. Also in the course of the three months I have had major car and financial problems. I have lost about 30 pounds in 2.5 months. Mainly do to lack of eating. I mostly ate 1 time a day. Today is my bday and me and the wifey had sex. Afterwards she came to me worried and asked if I have been using drugs, steroids that is. Long story short, my girth has decreased from it’s natural size. I started PE in November and I have noticed better and harder erections. I just want to know if the loss of girth is stress related or do to me eating one time a day? The worse news I could get from the lady I love. Please anybody with any insight respond.

Have you measured your girth or how do you know that it has decreased? Losing bodyweight doesn’t make your penis thinner; it could make appear your NBPEL longer, so if the girth remains the same you have the illusion that it is skinner. Also lack of energy both mental and physical can decrease your EQ and make your penis temporarily less girthy.

Before I started PE I would always do the ok test with my index and thumb. My girth is widest mid shaft so I would do it there and I would barely be able to touch fingers together. Now they can touch without a problem. And the wifey gave me oral which let me know further that something was not right.

Also in this time frame I have had countless nights with no sleep at all or very little. And for about 2 weeks I was just stretching and I think I over did it. It could also be the fact that I have been masturbating like crazy in the past couple of months.

You said. Penis size is sensitive to the stress, if you don’t have full EQ you can have smaller girth. You need rest and need a break from this bunch of problems. A couple of week of rest, doing just a short session of mild jelqs two times per week should give you back your girth; cut excessive masturbation, also. For the other personal problems the sole thing I can advice is to start a thread in the LL&F section, maybe other members support can help a bit.

Thank you so much. Hearing this come from the wife cut deep. And I will take a break. Jelqing is one of the more confusing things on this site. Is it suppose to be a tight grip or normal grip?

Just tight enough to move blood inside your penis. There are instructions and videos here

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