I don’t take pics. I’ve been contemplating it though. The fat pad is more of an issue and more pronounced when I’m standing. For instance, my visible flaccid is is 3inch, fat pressed its 5.9-6inch.
I love thicker women, and this is definitely an issue. The positions I get the most penetration is cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. I once had a girl whose vagina was at least 4 inches deep into butt meat when she was in doggy. It was no way for me to enjoy doggy with her.
Try more missionary or have her hike it up with a proper arch of that is possible. Pics would really help the dialogue, but I understand.