Give me a kick up the ass, please

Hi everyone, I haven’t been on the forum for a while, and have really dropped out of the PE race recently.

Things with the girlfriend are pretty amazing at the moment, we’re talking really mad sessions every day, and PE has gone to the back of my priorities.

I’m in two minds about this:

One says “Hey, I’m getting laid a lot, that surely is the main thing, getting laid more, right? I’m achieving the goal that a lot of guys are looking to get from having a bigger dick, so lets enjoy it!” Also, the girlfriend is loving it too, the recent change (well, about 2 months) of circumstances has driven her sex drive through the roof.

But the other side of me knows for a fact that me being bigger, especially more so on girth (my length seems to be doing alright at hitting her where she wants it, at least in missionary anyway) would result in even greater things…

Marrying this to absolutely crazy jerking sessions when she’s not here to compensate has left my cock definitely not up to PE, any time of the day.

Basically, I was wondering what you guys think? I know that a bigger dick will make things even better, (I got proof after a post-workout session a while ago) but I really am loving the high - octane sex life at the moment!

Opinions and suggestions would be much appreciated, and some general motivation to get me back into PE instead of jerking off and tiring myself out!

Tidge

Oh, and forgot to mention, we’ll be moving in together in six months, so my PE days are numbered (Haven’t gone down the route of telling her yet)

As long as you are confident and happy with things right now, I don’t see why you need to do more.

It really is difficult to justify cutting back on sex to make time for PE, isn’t it.

Cut out the ‘jerking’ to make time for PE.

Well the way i see it is… if your girlfriends loving the sex shes loving the cock which means bigger the better and she’d prob love someone elses big cock better than yours

NOW GET AND PE YOU LAZY ****

hope that works :D

Ahem, I think you need to explain the above statement to your friends here on Thunders in full detail, so we can all benefit :)

By the way, I had the same thing happen to me: started making my cock bigger, sex got better, probably not much to do with my cock as other things were going on, and I hardly bother with PE now.

But the BIG difference is, Lady777 is in on it! So I sometimes do a session immediately after sex when my unit is already warmed up and swollen from 45 minutes/an hour of shagging. If you do continue, one thing to bear in mind is that if you are having regular sex, you must not over-do PE, as it can make your erections less firm on the same day, especially if you really hammer it. Having said that, if you are young, it probably has less effect, but I am 42. But I’ve always been into the easy does it, light routines.

Ha, easier said than done! I just don’t seem to get the time these days. But I am cutting back on the jerking, just saving myself for the great sex, and hopefully finding the time to PE consistently. That is my main problem, consistency. I definitely want an hour of complete privacy to workout, and that is often hard to come by these days. Hmmm…

I need to be the guy with the big cock!

Well, essentially we’ve both recently moved to the city with our friends, and we meet up all the time, often in ‘inappropriate’ places. Basically the fact she can get sex almost whenever, wherever and however she wants it has really driven her (my) cock mad! She really gets into that thing these days! But I’ll stop talking, I’m making myself horny over here! :)

See, that is something I’m pretty confident I can only wish for. I can just tell from her general outlook that she would not be a fan, even it did boost her pleasure. Yeah she’d enjoy a bigger dick more, but I can see her viewing it as me admitting to being less of a man perhaps, and therefore a big turn off for her. It’s just the way she thinks I guess.

Yeah, even though I am only young I have trouble getting the diamond cutters when I have PE’d earlier in the day. It means I really need to plan PE in advance for when the girlfriend isn’t about! And that’s the other thing, If I have sex one day I can only PE afterwards if I didn’t come, but she ensures that that never happens almost all of the time (Why the hell am I complaining? :D ). Can you imagine what she’d say if I said, “actually babe, just leave me, I want to save my energy for later on”? She’s very ‘equal minded’ in our sessions. Can’t have me missing out! Hehe :)

I think there are two main demotivators for PE. Firstly, the apparent lack of use for it. Even though I know a bigger dick would make things even better, my body can’t seem to understand that to be up for sacrificing sex for PE time. Secondly, the real difficulty I have keeping up a routine. I know a lot of the guys here say consistency is so important - and it makes me think “Well, if I can’t do it right I might as well not at all”

My original aim was to get big, go on maintenance and stop PE when things get good, I’m not a hobbyist - just out for a better manhood! But I will ALWAYS kegel - EQ and penis fitness is absolutely vital, especially at the moment.

T

Quick update on the situation, just got off the phone, me and the girlfriend are meeting up for lunch and a shag. She’s “dead horny” as she didn’t see me last night, only did me in the morning yesterday. But she made me make a jerking video for her last night instead! My cock is exhausted! Wish me luck friends!

T

Bravo Tidge. You’re getting your end away on a regular basis, the GF seems to love your cock. Nothing to worry about it seems.

You can fit the PE back into your life tho’. I’d jelq 2x a week and do some manual stretches now and then 5 or 10 minutes. Every little helps ! stop spanking it and start jelqing it :)

Tidge-

There are some vets on here who have never let on to their wives. My wife and I don’t have any secrets from each other (that I know of :D ).
You’d be surprised what you can share with her… If you sound like an insecure guy desperate for a bigger dick, true to many women that is not sexy. But if you are doing it for fun “to see if it works” then that’s a different matter. Some aspects of PE are good for your health, like kegels for instance. You could share that with her - she should do them too. They make woman more multi-orgasmic. You need not mention about the fact that it makes them tighter ;)

Actually, on a side note, I’m not wild about women being tight. My wife varies, depending on if she is kegeling or not, and I like it every which way it comes. If she is slack and juicy one day, I just pound her harder, I LOVE it :)

At this point it seems like PE has served your goals. My honest opinion is that with things the way they are now, you are not going to be able to gain much through lack of consistancy and motivation. Heck, some have this problem even when they are by themselves. Maybe you could look at this part of your PE journey being over, with a possible future part 2 in PE if you ever find yourself single again, and wanting to “improve your package” until the next one comes along. Just make sure you don’t lose your gains, that must suck! Some kind of a light (maybe shower orientated) maintanence program might be good for peace of mind knowing that your dick isn’t going to shrink back to it’s original size. Maybe this program could replace some of your jerking sessions.

CubanB-

That girth is quite impressive. What difference did you experience during sex with the new girth?

Tidge,

I wouldn’t fuck with anything if I were you. Nothing! You are experiencing the goal of PE!

Well it sounds like you have a great thing going there! This is my suggestion, forget about PE for right now. Just enjoy the abundant sex you are having. Best case scenario, you end up marrying this woman and you guys have great sex for the rest of your lives. Worst case, you break up and you end up being single for awhile or you get a new girlfriend who is not as sex crazed; at this point you can begin a PE routine.