Envy of Smaller, Shorter Guys

The grass is always greener…

I’m 5’ 5. Trust me, being short isn’t an advantage in this aspect. :(

Being taller is a positive male characteristic. It really shouldn’t matter that it proportionally makes your package smaller. Especially since it doesn’t change how big it is compared to the girl (which is what really matters). It almost seems like wishing you were uglier so that your penis would seem more handsome.

She will feel an 8 incher for sure. But let´s say the 8 incher will look small on the male´s body to her. Then in her mind she could perceive it as an 7 incher. Then she will experience the sex as having it with an seven incher. Leaving the other factors out of discussion.

On the other side I believe you can also work subtle into her mind that she can perceive your dick bigger then it is.

I understand what he is talking about. A taller guy might seem apt to feel he is more different, if hes surrounded by shorter dudes. One of my friends would get down whenever we would play, like soccer. He would just be too slow to play with us. He was like 6’5. I’m 5’10 and much quicker. So, he might seem more “normal” if his body would match his dick. I can understand this, simple psychology. Just let me tell you, work your dick up, be glad you are tall.

Funny that you say that, and not the other way around. Why not, “its like my penis takes away from my size (i’m 6’3).” So maybe you have some insecurities with your height, not sure. Just think about why you said it the way you did, and realize why you did so.

You can’t worry about womans expectations. Because your experience will help define her “future” expectations. You seem like you have an issue with confidence. Let me just tell you, confidence is like THE ultimate girl seducer. Gather it from your height- you are 6’3. If you take off your pants looking sad, in the corner, yea she will be like “wtf?” But if you straight take em off, strut your stuff and be confident, maybe she might think its not that big, but “Well he is so confident he must be great with it.”

You really just gotta get your head up, chin up and don’t worry about what a girl thinks. If shes into you the whole night, getting ready to hook up, shes not gonna run out of the room screaming if your dick is a little undersized, which i’m sure its not anyways (your worried abouts looks? come on sir).

MY DICK seems undersized to my body. My legs are huge from sports and really just dwarf my dick. But do I wish my legs were smaller? It would make my dick look bigger. Well, sometimes I guess I do. But thats not realistic. I am thankful for my big legs and the speed/quickness I get from them. The only realistic “solution” if you will, to this problem, which really isn’t even a problem at all, just an issue, is to …. “PE” and make my dick bigger. That will take care of that.

But I don’t worry about appearances, I worry about “closing.” Isn’t that what you really want? You spend the whole night “hunting” now you just gotta get the balls to make the kill.

I’m 5”4, try being 5”4 your whole adult life, it’s nothing to be envious of.

I’m 5’6” and I’d much rather trade 5” of height for penis size. As this forum shows you can increase your penis size but you can’t increase your height. As one pointed out when u are shorter guy a lot of women are going to assume u have a smaller dick as well so you never even get the opportunity to show her what you have anyway. In fact i would say the only advantage that I’ve ever seen when I’m out with a friend of mine who is 6’5” and 250lbs is that maybe 1 out of 8 women are more nervous for their safety around him and it makes it a bit harder for him to close the deal with those women. Being smaller I can sometimes slip in to situations with women because they are not as intimidated. This shocks him but when some woman first meets a guy there is safety/trust issues. But this is rare occurance and most women are going to go for a talller guy out of the gate.

The whole thing about this is that by the time the girl actually sees your cock the deal has been done.

I”d also point out that when I’m fully erect and arroused I exceed most women’s expectations because I’m a smaller guy and just about 6” fully erect and they were expecting something perhaps far below average. But if I’m nervous and erection quality suffers then I lose enough size that it quickly looks below average.

My goal is going to be 7.25” and good girth to go with figuring at 5’6” I will be above average in size and with my body and build will be much better off if perhaps erection is not full. Plus I hope the PE will help me overcome some of EQ issues I have when I’m nervous. It’s so frustrating to be with a women and have 80% arrousal and then even just an hour after she is gone you have a raging hardon.

Most women I know say that height and size are not related.

There is only a weak correlation between the two last time I checked. Have not seen a good study on it lately. Someone aught to go re-analyze the height / size thread.

Anyway, I am only 5 foot 8 inches and not doing too bad. I would say that your fears are totally unfounded and that it sounds like you have some pretty severe confidence issues.

The only other thing I can think of is that taller guys usually date taller girls, and taller girls have (in my experience) bigger vagina’s than short women. Try dating a really short / petite girl for a while - I am sure you will get a huge confidence boost.