Zaneblue - Bless You
Hi all and Zane in particular.
To make a long story short, this past Saturday I was with the girl of my dreams, someone I dated briefly while she was separated. She returned to her husband 3 yrs ago. Early this year after years of no contact I discovered she was divorced. Not only that but heard that she had been in love w/me the whole time, but tried to hold the family together for noble reasons.
Back to Saturday night, we went on a nice date, went back to her place and eventually to bed. Getting hard was not a problem by staying hard was. She had one orgasm, but I was dissapointed, because I’d alway given her multiples. 45 minutes later I could not come. Dittos the next morning. I was extremely depressed, thinking PE had caused insensitivity, and perhaps fatigue, but I started recalling a pattern of delayed ejaculations, particularly during intercourse going back to a few years (even the last time she and I were together).
Today I saw your links in the de-sensitized penis thread and to the TMS site in particular. The face down into a pillow/sock method is exactly what I’d been doing for about 4-5 years!
So with greatly renewed hope of recovering, I say bless you!
p.s. - do you think a Fleshlight would help? and if so which model?
Goal = 5" x 5" flaccid;]