Premature Ejaculation..I think

For most of my sex life i suffer from PE. For the past 2yrs I have been doing alot better. My problem was that I got excited too quick. Thanks to my wife she have been very patience with the stop and go technique. She brings me near to orgasm then I pull out and relax until the feeling go away. I’m in a threesome relationship at the moment and most of the time I’m able to take both women to orgasm. Just learn to relax.

“Threesome relationship” and you are “able to take both women to orgasm”… I’ve got to ask, is this at the same time? I gots to know…

This guy sounds like he is living in a Hemingway novel. Some people know how to live. :)

Welcome to the forums Tololo !!!

Where do you order his book?

I think he is too busy to write it. Lucky man. Belize and two women.

Bumping an earlier message for Regularwhiteguy which I somehow addressed to myself:)

RWG, when you used to cum too soon can you describe the feeling.?

With me, I feel nothing much for awhile and then a sudden erotic sensation which a few secs after leads to ejaculation.

One thing I’ve noticed helps is by RELAXING my PC muscle. I know this is contrary to all those who say kegeling works but when I cum too soon it is because of my PC muscle contracting and shooting my cum straight after.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by davetherave

RWG, when you used to cum too soon can you describe the feeling.?

My two bobs worth.

Quality than quantity.Make a decision no more quickies.

Sex is going to take a long time.Made up by various acts.Know first time in,you will cum fast.So plenty of kissing etc,then down on her to cum or close too.Her on top so you can last 10% longer.Youve cum and she has too.Hug kiss get hard again.In again say her on back you on side coming in like from behind.Now go for minimum of two hours up to eight hours.100 different speeds,100 times of turning her around on top,behind,sideways,talking,kissing,touching etc etc.If feel like cuming slow down, change positions.If cum ,do above again,from In again.This is realy making love to just plain old rooting.Im in my forties and it has taken me 25 years to learn this.
Most important -No quickies.Just isnt worth it.The wait for good sex is.
regards

First off IMO I think the Chianese lady is fuckin you. She tells you you will last longer and you believe. I did not see this question asked even though I read pretty fast,but how old are you ,or how much experience with actual intercourse do you have?I have cum within 30 sec of sex, and sometimes not until 45 minutes of sex.I have used the creams ,and what I used did work for my glans.I have not trained myself to cum ,but would like to.

Chrisco,

Deciding not to cum too fast would work about as good as a wino with irriatable bowell syndrome deciding not to shit his pants after an “all you can eat buffet” & a 1/5 of Nightrain… All the Jedi mind tricks in the world would just make you a Jedi covered in shit in this case…

Being very serious here, I’ve tried all of the things you have mentioned and it didn’t matter in the least… When I started PE to help my premature ejaculation I could get hard, grab behind my glans, slightly squeeze and shoot off right then and there! Changing positions? I couldn’t get it in all the way without ejaculating… I guess I could have touched the head of my penis to the pussy, changed positions and did it again until I went through all of the standard ones.. Again, a Jedi covered in shit!

Dragster,

I fully believed that the Chinese lady *WAS* full of shit, I didn’t expect it to work and was wondering what I could try next as I was doing my first session with her… As far as the Jams and jelly is concerned I’ve tried all of them… The spray and cream fixes were both equally worthless for me… I know what worked for me and that was PE and acupuncture… BTW, I’m 35 Years old… As far as experience goes I’ve fucked somewhere over 100 girls.. When I was younger I would shoot just as fast but I could keep it rock hard until I wanted to stop, it’s not that way anymore… Not to blow my own horn but I’ve never had trouble getting pussy, pretty good looking, fairly good sized prick… Experience got me nothing as far as lasting.. No dout that the same thing will not work for everyone I know what worked for me…

RWD You have been with over 100, not fucked ,unless 2sec. is a fuck.35 ,and 100 women man you should of been way passed this at maybe 20.”toot toot”

The glans is a very sensitive part of the body, but IMO I think its all in the other head that cuases premature ejaculation.

If yall are cumin 3-4 times then what the fuck are you bitchin about.I can do one for the evening maybe two, and thats a big maybe.

Like I said, used to be able to keep it up after shooting ( *Past Tense* )…

Id love to just get off when i want to get off with my partners.. I have the opposite of premature ejaculation it seems, cept when im masturbating. Can go for hours on end. Perhaps ive conditioned myself to work well with my hands only..

A question for RWG (hope you’re still following this thread).

There seems a lot written that PE is related to anxiety etc. Like you I cum too fast for my liking but I also cum too fast when I masturbate. Have used the stop and go technique and it isn’t really practical for sex. Did you used to cum too soon only when having sex or when masturbating too?

BTW, after your tip I have been seeing an acupuncturist for the past 5 weeks. He said PE is related to weak kidneys or something. I was hoping for a result like yours but so far I haven’t noticed a thing. Did your treatment vary much in needle insertion etc (my guy seems to put ‘em in the same place each time)?

As far as jerking off I would cum ‘almost’ as fast… The Chinese Lady who helped me out said my Kidney was not aligned correctly or something to that effect, she mentioned something about it…

I went for a total of 5 visits and they placed the needles in the same place only every time they added more needles and those they put in different places… I especially hated when they put them in the tips of my fingers and toes… The girl who straightened me out said I was too sensitive and that was why she did acupuncture in my fingers and toes, that whole thing was logical the way my mind wokes…

Looking back on it, PE gave me the big push from a couple of seconds to being able to last several minutes.. I lasted a couple of times up to 15 minutes prior to acupuncture… I’m happy to report that now I can last longer then my wife would like me too! Only people like us knows how good that feels… The other things I did that helped were:

A) Quit wearing underwear for almost 8 months… I was lucky because I could wear jeans to work but now have to wear slacks.. my meager package is way too noticable to get away with that w/ slacks so I”m back to wearing underwear again..

B) Make sure your prick is @ it’s hardest prior to putting it into your wife / g/f.. Seems if I’m semi I cum much faster then if I’m like a rock… Not sure about the other guys but I experience significant greater feeling if I’m semi and fucking my wife… Here is what is odd..

If I’m really hard and I put it in my wife other then being rather tight I do not notice anything special, HOWEVER, when I put it in semi I feel the tightness from stem to stern and I cum in a hurry.. I credit this to PE because as everyone who practices it knows beyond a doubt it greatly improves erection quality…

P.S.

I always follow premature ejaculation threads :)