Ive been coming to this forum for a while now often using it as a good place for information on sexual health and imroving my penis size, etc. I came here and another site way before when I was a virgin and I think the information and stories I’ve gotten from you guys on past experiences has vastly helped me when I did first start having sexual relations with my current girlfriend. So this is the only place I feel comfortable coming asking a question like this considering most guys here are some of the most knowledgable I’ve seen in my life in regards to topics like this…..
But anyway my problem is this. I’ve been with my girlfriend for close to a year. Before then I would masterbate to porn about 1 to 2 times a day (Sometimes as much as 4 times a day), never realizing the risk you’re running of desentizing yourself to real sexual stimulation. The first time I’ve had sex with my girlfriend I was relaxed, calm and I performed well enough that she didnt even know I wasnt a virgin. Well the problem was this…. the reason it seemed like I performed so well is because I lasted nearly two hours, hitting her from all sorts of positions, but thats becase I never came close to having an orgasm….
I figured this would pass over time and since i was pleasing her I could bide my time until eventually I figured Id ejaculate during sex. Well it’s been a little under a year (we had sex last october 30) and I’ve had sex with her reguarly and still not ejaculated even once. I often “pretend” like Im cumming and grab a tissue, sheet, towel, whatever and completely cover my dick as I pretend to let it go. She is the type that she doesnt really want my stuff on her, so she wont really investigate.
Well I’m stuck and dont know what to do. I’ve tried laying off masterbation for a week at a time before I’ve had sex with her to no avail. I’ve tried everything. It just isn’t working. And now it also feels like my erections arent as strong as they could possibly be and sometimes it will even reside. I mean we’re having great sex and it makes me come off great because I can keep some sort of erection for as long as I want, even tho they arent always as strong as they should be. But Im long due for something. An orgasm or something…..
Now she’s also dissappointed that she cant make me cum while giving me head and is very determined to do so. I just tell her I would rather cum while having sex. She gives GREAT head and has even wanted me to cum in her mouth (Shed rather swallow then receive a facial), just because she sees it as a goal to make me cum while giving me head.
I can only do this for so much longer. I’m trying to increase my water intake and have even bought some ginkgo biloba, in hopes of increasing my erection strength and hopefully maybe a stronger rockhard erection will result in allowing me that release during sex Ive long dreamed for. I’m leery of takin much more than that because I want to stay more on the natural root. I’ve been readin up some experiences with L-arginine, and am thinkin of maybe taking that.
PLEASE someone help me out. All I want is to naturally get off on sex with the one woman I want to be with. I’m 20 years old and I should be at my sexual peak now. Help please…..