Kegels and Multiple orgasms/Ejaculatory control
I’ve been reading “How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild) ” which many people have presented as the de facto “standard” in learing to achieve multiple orgasms.
The book presents methods that are used to control arousal level:
2. Focus (focus of physical stimulation that is)
I have no trouble with the first two. But kegels actually tend to increase my arousal level. To the point that if I stop all stimulation when I am aroused but not at the point of inevitably (say a 9.5 or so on her 1-10 scale) and kegel hard I will have a full (ejaculatory) orgasm.
Does anyone have any insight on this? I’d really like to be able to apply the material in this book but this seems to be something of a sticking point for me.
Thanks in advance.