Just had sex first time

Anyone

I’d say that my neice is probably the exception, then. Her mom told me that the same thing happened to her, so it’s probably hereditary in their family. Who knows. Have you kept in contact with the girl and talked it all out?

She doesn’t even seem to care when I talk to her about it..
That stresses me out even more, because what if she does get pregnant, the way it looks I highly doubt she would get an abortion..

This first time experience of sex I swear to you out of any of my other bad experiences in my life is the worst.

It just won’t leave me, how ever I have learned a lot and looking at life differently, but I hope it’s just a lesson and that I won’t have to suffer from the consequences of being infected and/or being a father..

Please any geniuses out there invent something to go back in time, not joking.

“STDs are transmitted instantly. All it needs is ONE drop of fluid, and the deed is done.

Sorry to be harsh, but it’s true”

I got that from a site.
So from that statement does that mean if you have unprotected sex with an infection that you would get it for sure?

She has the right attitude.

You need to stop. Stop posting, stop asking the same questions over and over, and stop worrying. This is getting out of hand.

Are you sure you’re 19? You’re acting like someone much younger.

Let’s see if you can let this thread sit for 24 hours and not post to it. OK?

Fine it’s just I need to keep hearing something I’m going crazy you have no idea, like I been saying I have never been through this much stress in my life and trust me I am the type of person who has gotten picked on through all my years in school especially high school, I would do anything to go back to those days.

Just taking the pill will take care of it, however this is if she had already been on it. Recently my girlfriend had missed the pill a couple days in a row, then we had sex. Right now she is bleeding alot and not on her period… Whatever. Better that she bleeds for a few days rather than having a kid.

Hey guys I need your opinions on this.
Lets say hopefully this girl does not get pregnant and that I do not get any type of disease from this stupid experience.

Lets say I get into a real relationship with someone, like someone you would marry.
Do you think it is necessary that I should tell this person about this experience that I had.
The reason why I am saying this is because lets say hopefully she didn’t get pregnant and I didn’t get a disease, I would plan on meeting this girl I been talking to, who is real special to me and meet her for the first time..

I really am ashamed of this experience and I know she would lose respect for me if I we’re to tell her this and I know for a fact she would not trust me if I told her this, I mean I have definitely learned my lesson, being dangerously ignorant .
Do you guys think I should still tell her this, I mean I know I will if god forbid say that girl I fucked gets pregnant and/or I get some type of disease from that.
What do you guys think?

One word: NO

You don’t have to tell a future wife anything about this. Any more than she should tell you about former boyfriends.

Even if it’s someone you been talking to but haven’t met yet?
I don’t know in a way I feel guilty if I don’t, should I feel guilty?

Body,

What part of NO don’t you get? The N or the O?

It doesn’t matter whether or not you’ve met your future spouse, it doesn’t matter if you are currently talking to them. They do not need to know. And if you are feeling guilty, I would recommend you keep it in your pants until you are married.

“Senior Member” has taken on a whole new meaning.

I debated about a) closing the thread or b) putting bb on hold so he couldn’t post. Glad someone made a decision.

bb - DO NOT start a new thread on this topic or your membership will be in jeopardy.