I'm nice and hard during begining of intercourse then it just goes limp (Page 2)

09-28-2010, 12:37 AM

let_it_work

Originally Posted by smginstl

I experienced the same thing for most of my adult life. I would get excited very easily, especially when around a trusted SO, but the erection would falter after a few minutes of sex. I think my issue was from over-thinking and worrying about pleasing/not hurting my partner.
I don’t know if you have asked a doctor about Viagra or Cialis yet, but I can vouch for both working wonderfully. I know they are ridiculously expensive, but I have ordered some generic Viagra from one of those online pharmacy’s, and either I got lucky, or found a good site, because what they sent works just like the name brand stuff.
I hope that everything works out for you.

Yes, thank you for sharing. I actually got some viagra and man it does improve my stamina tons, yay! However, it is very expensive and I find out that I can’t seem to have and actual erection at all for another 4 days after that. Does anyone know if that’s a side effect to viagra?

09-28-2010, 12:47 AM

let_it_work

Thanks everyone for your input. I mentioned above the Viagra working yes but not sure if it has side effects for a few days after. Anyway, I noticed the more I work on myself too with these tools, the better stamina I have. I don’t want to depend on Viagra due to loving sex and can’t afford to keep buying it. I’m going to check into a few of the ideas above and see how that works. Last night, I became very aroused and took a viagra and sure enough got hard and stayed that way. However, this freaked me out, I couldn’t ejaculate for the life of me. My wife was awesome even though worn out by this time still helped finish me off. That was embarrassing but she reassured me. I really focused on what was going on and not the negative and did pretty well but boy 2 hrs? When finally had one it was nothing. Here is the bright side still, I had the chance to please my wife with a firm penis and also just the intimacy was great overall.

I love this site, literally in a lot of ways it has been very supportive. Thanks to all.