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He says he never gained and has 3 different measurements. I can’t believe this guy with the stuff he has said in his short time here.

Normally, I’d hate to be odd man out, but this time, I’m glad. And so would my GF be if she was privy to this post. I almost wish she knew about my PE so I could show her this post and get some brownie points. People often take what they have for granted.

First I’d like to say, a woman can cum loads of times. I guess some chicks are light weights. I used to think my ex was because she was only good for two hours max. Sex feels good. Just having it. The male orgasm is the icing on the cake. I honestly believe a man could conceivably keep it up indefinately ( I know it can be maintained for around eight hours ,without drugs, from experience, but I suspect that ,if both parties had the physical stamina and could go without food longer, it could be held for much longer). I know for a fact it can be kept erect after orgasm. I’ve done it a lot of times. It feels much more intense after you cum.

If you want to stay up longer, I applaud you. You will never do it if you think the way some of these posts read. That’s the first big thing. Change your mindset. Sex is not about blowing your load. Society has trained people to think that way. With that kind of who cares attitude, it’s no wonder women stray so often. If a chick felt like that about my sexual pleasure, I’d get it elsewhere.

It’s all about pleasing your partner as much as she could possibly want. If you please her and don’t worry about yourself, you will get more pleasure out of the whole thing.Sex is about …having sex.Hell, orgasm is not the only part of sex that feels great.

You need to have the physical stamina to do sustained activity for a long time, but it can be developed.

There are a number of things that can help you physically. Breath control is one. Breathe deeply and steadily like during meditation. Uncontrolled breathing will make you cum quicker.

Kegels is another. When you practice kegels don’t clamp for all you are worth for short duration. That is how women should do kegels. Women and men need to get different things out of kegels. Hold the kegel like you hold your piss. In fact that’s one way to practice kegels. Hold your urine for long periods. If you hold it that way, it will be a steady medium strength clamp. Real hard clamps take a lot of concentration. Concentrating on orgasm (even the avoidance of it) will make you cum. Real hard clamps also cause muscle fatigue and are hard to maintain for any time. If you kegel with the “urine holding pressure” you can clamp the muscle and forget about it. Also, sudden hard kegels are a part of the orgasmic process. If you don’t want to cum , it makes little sense to do something which is part of orgasm.

One other element is building sexual tension. Long foreplay is great. I always make my chicks cum numerous times with fingers and mouth before intercourse. That gets them rolling and sets up for multiple orgasms during sex. But it has a great side effect for you. If you are stimulated (through the mental excitement of her pleasure, and the physical excitement of her touch) for a long time, while maintaining the kegel and not cumming, it creates tension in the muscles of the pelvic region. This helps the BC muscles stay clamped. It spreads the work over more muscles. The longer you go without cumming and build tension, the easier it is to keep from cumming.

When the GF and I have sex I normally can’t cum without trying. She’ll let me know she’s all cummed out and exhausted and needs me to cum and I actually have to relax myself to begin to build to orgasm. Actually, if she tires too quickly, she’ll end up having to do me by hand our mouth because I don’t have the time to get there. The benefit (besides her pleasure and willingness to put up with a lot of shit not to loose you) is that when you are having a hard time cumming and it takes you a real long time to reach that point, the orgasm is mind blowing when it cums (sorry, I couldn’t help the pun).

The importance of sexual tension can’t be stressed enough. Orgasm, in both men and women, occurs by rapid clenching of the BCs or PCs (depending on your gender). If the muscles are tensed up, they can not tense without first relaxing. It’s impossible. That’s why you have to be relaxed in martial arts.

Anyhow, that’s a good bit of info to help you out. In other posts on this subject , I have said that I’d give detailed info on lasting a long time to anyone who was interested. Just PM me. The offer still stands. Just remember, it will take dedication and training to accomplish, but it is worth it, at least in my book. And you don’t have to take any pills to do it. You just need to train yourself.

Now, back to our regularly scheduled program.

Originally Posted by sperminator
Guys i dont want to make a new thread as i think it would be a waste. But basicly i can go for ages getting handjobs or a gobby or something but the moment i stick it in its all over red rover, dont last long at all. Its happened all but once basicly but that once off was probably because id had a few beers. Now what im confsed at is, is this pre-jac or what, and what can i do to get past this? just confusing as i go for ages with anything else, thanks

It is in your mind. Your mind is what generates the excitement that makes you cum. You find the sex so mentally exciting, you blow your load. Mental development is another big part of lasting longer. Most people would find it unbearable to walk barefoot in the snow, but I do it all the time. Mental control.

Originally Posted by devilknight666
The longer you go without cumming and build tension, the easier it is to keep from cumming.

Not for me!! If I get all hard for a long time, it’s easier for me to blow my load!

Hi everyone.
I didnt want to start a new thread for this, as it is related to this topic.

I did a lot of reading about Kegels, premature ejaculation, multiple orgasm here on Thunder’s in the past days. I want to last longer with my SO since it is frustrating for her I guess to not experience orgasm during intercourse. The 1st time I did it with her, I last a lot , I mean a lot longer than now.

I got one question about kegels and multiple orgasm : this morning I tried it myself, and when I feel the ejaculation coming, I kegel. I stopped the ejaculation process, not semen went out, but I loose all my erection and it didnt come back.

Can you explain this ?

It takes practice and isn’t an easy to master thing. If it were, everyone would do it. Just keep working at it. I suspect you were a little late and the semen went past the BC and into your bladder (your urine would look different the first time you go to the bathroom afterwards if this were the case). It means you were very close to being successful but probably needed to kegel a bit sooner. Not bad for an early attempt!

I have to agree with Devilknight, it is all in the mind, I have done kegels and edging and although it help’s, in truth if I wanted to cum in 2 sec’s it would happen, or if I wanted to last 20 mins I could, the only problem is if I am enjoying the experience, it is hard for me to control, because my mind is too caught up in the act, so the question is how do you battle it?

Thanks you Johanson for your reply.

I will keep trying and like you said, kegel a bit sooner.

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