Had the problem that no guy wants to have

By that I of course mean I couldn’t get it up. Beyond embarrassing. I’m 20 years old for Christ sake!

The girl was hot, I have never before had problems getting it up, I am healthy (always working out with weights + cardio), and I do not drink or do any other drugs. I think perhaps it could have been caused by:

1. I was nervous
2. I am addicted to whacking off to porn almost every night for the last 5 years.

Needless to say, I’ve stopped watching porn and masturbating altogether. It only been 2 days and I hardcore want to whack it.

Funny thing is I was rock hard through my jeans for a while during foreplay, but when it came time to go for glory, it died.

So, whats to blame? Nervousness or porn addiction? Can anyone enlighten me? Thanks

Both, porn detox ahead my friend.

Be strong. Try installing an adult content filter. Don’t check out forums like “Let’s all Rate her #Gabijillion” and if you don’t use computer for much else besides porn, try and keep your computer off as much as possible.

Any possibility the two of you (you and this hot girl) could hook up again?

And what was her reaction to you not being able to get a hard on?

Both.

Although I would lean more on the anxiety as a cause.

Even though at 20 you’re a walking cum factory, the constant “waking” will deplete resources as well.

Today I am frantic as I am having the same problem. Last night I was lucky enough to take home this girl - we’re “kind of” seeing each other - and when we make out, even a little, with our clothes on, everything works, but when it comes time to get serious, I cannot get hard! In reviewing some of the other instances in which I have been with women, getting hard has always been a major problem for me. Subsequent failures are causing me to get slightly frantic and I wonder if there is anything I can do to overcome my sexual performance anxiety? Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

I know I masturbate WAY too much: oftentimes in conjunction with my beginner PE exercises
I sleep way too little and am generally a nervous individual
I am in my early 20s and cannot remember the last time I had “morning wood”

So:

1. Masturbate less.
2. Get more sleep. Find healthy ways to deal with being nervous.

I’m pretty sure you guys are just nervous.. I know I always am the first time with a new girl.. It happens.

We’re way past that! I think it’s up to ninety gabijillion :)

“Boy, I never seen so much whackin'.” (obscure?)

I’m with RC on this one: quit your whackin’ and go for the gold.

GM

Nerves and overstimulation.

Porn detox, five days off all masturbation, only touch your dick alone for PE— save all cum for ‘cumpany’.

She said jokingly “I’m a little offended”. I told her I was nervous and really embarrassed by it, she was very understanding, said no problem don’t worry about it. She didn’t want to have sex anyways, just suck my dick for a little. She sucked it for a while but it couldn’t get hard. Later on in the night after more making out and grinding, I did get about 85% hard and she sucked it for a little while.

To much porn.

I have the same problem, when I meet a new girl. I get hard easily when making out but as soon as the dick gets close to the jackpot it gets limp. It happens alot at first, but after awhile being with her I can’t get my cock to go down. It must just be with certain men and their nervousness. I don’t know, but I personally don’t think that it’s porn. I feel your pain though. Get some viagra or something and rock that pussy.

I have to agree with Harris 100%. Except with the viagra advice! Do NOT take viagra! You’re 18 and you don’t need anything artificial.

It’s totally normal performance anxiety. Once you get comfortable with the chick, you will have a boner constantly.

You have no problems. It’s just like Harris wrote. It happens to me with a very hot chick too. I think this stems from the pressure in your mind to be a good lay or have a really hard, big-looking cock. That pressure will go away after you have sex with her a few times.

You will see that the mind absolutely can affect your boner performance. Breath deeply and relax. Life is good. You’re getting laid. Physically, you are 100% perfect.

Happy Slamming, Old Boy

I hear ya bro, I’m 20 years old as well. This has happened to me multiple times. I’ve slept with A LOT of woman…and this never ceases to exist here and there. Especially with the impacient verbal chicks, they have a tendency to make a person more and more anxious. Anyway, my only advice to you is to imagine yourself sticking your cock slowly in her pussy. Focus on her…and forget everything else. What helps as well is to start rubbing her clit while you are thinking about her to reinforce it.