Trying the Linear Routine as a Complete Beginner
Hey guys. Thankful for the site and all of the great information and inspiration shared.
I discovered PE accidentally while reading a thread on Reddit because I thought I had bumped my girlfriends cervix. I doubt that now however, as it was a single occurrence in 2 years and I am very much average in size.
I have always felt slightly below average, but understand that I am more or less completely average statistically.
I am very much in love with my girlfriend and she is amazing and supportive in every way. Unfortunately, she has never had an orgasm, solo or with any prior partners or myself. She has also never masturbated much and definitely without any regularity.
I know that it isn’t logical to think, but I have become paranoid that she is not enjoying our sex life as much as I feel she should or could, despite her assuring me that I am the best she has had due to the emotional connection and the “rhythm” as she puts it. Her having had 8 prior partners, I’ve become mildly obsessed with the idea that at LEAST one of them was much better endowed and therefore more enjoyable to her. A comment that “bigger doesn’t necessarily mean better” was also quite hurtful, though not intended to be. And I probably should feel good about it rather than upset.
I go down on her frequently, but her clitoris becomes overly sensitive and uncomfortable relatively quick. Which is also new to me. So until that changes, if it can or will, I’m sort of stuck just thinking that she has had better.
Therefore, largely as a result of my own insecurities, I would like to achieve 7 1/2” BPEL (or 7” NBPEL) and 5 1/2” MSEG. Hopefully this is achievable.
Current measurements having never done any PE are:
BPEL - 6 1/8” (roughly 5 1/2” NBPEL)
MSEG - 5”
I will be doing the linear newbie routine basically as written for at least 3-4 months, at which time I may add some more advanced techniques.
Had my first session about 30 minutes ago including a 5 min warm up with a warm/hot cloth, one 30 sec stretch up, down, left, right and forward, 20 wet jelqs (sort of forward, sort of downward; having difficulty knowing what is best), and a 5 min warm/hot cloth warm down (?).
I will do my best to have 4 sessions per week with no more than two consecutive on days and no more than one consecutive off day, however on some days privacy is an issue as I live with the girlfriend and a roommate.
I have taken “before” measurement pictures, which accurately depict my starting MSEG and almost accurately depict my starting BPEL (it’s 1/8” short as I was a bit camera shy). I will post these with my first progress pics.
Thanks for reading.
Last edited by Rlamp : 09-05-2015 at .