To Younger Guys Who Think They Have Small Dicks
Hi All - I’ve been on-again/off-again on PE for a few years. I want to share some perspective to younger guys on here looking for a bigger penis. I started in the low 6-6.2 range and 5.3 at the base. I’ve had success with my BPEL at 7.2 (jelqing, piss pulls, those bends you do around your wrist) and BPEG at 5.75 at the base, only 5.5 at mid-shaft (jelqing, horse 440s, ulis - a brief amount of clamping, too lazy to do it often). My best gains have been with the 440s and Ulis combined with disciplined warming. I’m trying to increase my girth to 5.75 top to bottom and maybe add another .25 to my length (never satisfied)
In terms of advice.. Let me start off by saying that I’m Asian, average height, very fit build, and in my early 30s. My story may be strange/off-putting/depressing/ridiculous/whatever to some, but my intent is motivation and advice. Being Asian, I’ve been conditioned to think that I have a smaller dick than others. Even after comparing my starting averages to global averages, I had never really accepted it (I’m sure many others here understand this, even if they’re not Asian). My self-consciousness caused me to avoid sexual encounters, even when girls showed interest in high school and college - all because of my perception of my own penis size. In fact, I probably went over-board with workouts at the gym to make up for what I thought was an inherent un-attractiveness about me (being an Asian). When I finally had sex after college, I had read so much about how to please women and was so concerned about my inability to deliver, that my first session was an (incredible) 4.5 hours long. Why so long? I had performance anxiety from size anxiety! So, I gave head, fingered, back-and-forth for the first couple hours (she came several times) until I finally had worked up enough of a (weak erection) to put it in. That first experience gave me confidence for future sessions, and, though I still thought I had a small dick, I started PE and found myself increasingly confident in bed.
And then we broke up. And the old self-image issues came back before a life-changing experience (too long for this post) caused me to realize my own self-worth.
Now, I’m in my early 30s and I’m waking up to the fact that I really did have a serious self-image problem that prevented me from enjoying relationships in high school and college, during formative years. I’m realizing more and more that it’s not about penis size, but about self-love and self-esteem. By many measures, I’m successful and well-liked, but it’s never been enough. In my case, I had allowed the often joking-but-racist jabs, fear of rejection, and fear of size insufficiency to get in the way of dating and sexual experience that most people take for granted. (PSA to those who make such racist jabs, it really can have a negative effect on someone - be nice to people, it can change the world, but I digress). More recently, I have come to terms with my penis size as being slightly larger than average, but, more importantly, I’ve also greatly changed the way I view myself and what I have to offer.
I guess my point is that if you’re holding out from seeking relationships because of your penis size, PE can help, but the real answer is learning to love and appreciate yourself (including your dick, no matter what size it is).
The only reason I’m even posting after so many years of lurking is because I just posted about how trunksdarklord approach for turkey neck elimination was successful.. But the more I thought about my PE progress over the years, the more I thought it might be useful to some other guys. In the end, do PE because you want to do it, not because you don’t love yourself enough or appreciate yourself enough - it won’t come from having a bigger dick. PE gains of any amount prove that, if you put your mind to it, you can do anything.. Including changing how you think of yourself. Peace and gratitude to other members who’ve made my gains possible!
- Spartan
Mind over matter!
6/2017 - BPEL 7.2 BPEG 5.75 base
