So, apparently it's ALL in the girth

For the first time ever, my current girlfriend of several years commented directly on the size of my penis;

“Hmmm, I really love your cock, especially when it gets really big and veiny and throbbing… I REALLY like it… it’s big!”

I asked her if she thought it was bigger than average (I know it is a bit bigger than average, now thanks to Thundersplace!) and she said she thought it was a lot bigger.

I asked her if she would like it to be bigger and she said

“Well, maybe the girth… it’s all about the girth!”

So, there I have it. From now on, I’m focusing entirely on girth exercises. I have a bathmate gathering dust and some cable clamps in a toolbox where they won’t arouse suspicion. Another issue of mine is major baseball bat shape which I think is attributable to poor form when practising jelqs early on; I will be trying to corrrect this issue as well as improving EQ to the maximum seeing as she likes the bulging veins… time to get to it! :-)

It’s nice that you received a positive response to your question, but still I don’t get guys asking women this kind of questions , putting oneself in a vulnerable position, just to receive some validation. I think that we’ve all read countless times that this kind of questions can wreak havoc on one’s confidence if the response is negative.

True… I guess I don’t have the highest self-esteem sexually. In reality, I wouldn’t have asked her anything had she not brought it up in the first place. I suppose knowing I am a bit bigger than average now and that PE has worked gave me the courage to ask it at all. It’s a valuable confidence boost to get to hear those words though, ‘validation’ or not.

How big are you? And I ask those questions but not always buf from time to time is good.

7.5 BPEL. Working on girth as only 5” at thickest point :-(

5” girth is nothing to be sad about in my humble opinion.

Well considering average girth is slightly less than 5 inches you are a little ahead of the game actually, even if not by much. I also want a half inch more girth so I can be at 5.75, but I do believe girth to be more of a factor as far as pleasure goes for a woman.

Yeah man, regretted it every time I asked especially since you can never be sure of what she may mean by whatever her answer is. Is she saying positive shit just to make you feel good? Is she non chalant about it to keep your ego in check? Is she pissed about something and decides to destroy your soul by telling you she had bigger in the 9th AND 7th grades?

Risky business dude. A bro’s ding-dong ego is like Humpty Dumpty. Once broke all the kings horses & all the kings….well y’know.

Like I said, it’s only in one small area it’s that big - significantly smaller at the base and I attribute this to poor form jelqing as a teen; I think squeezing too hard at the base meant I never had the base in an expanded condition and then massively increased pressure at the end which produced the baseball bat effect.

So true! Just need to keep up gaining and then I won’t care if my ego gets hit… deliberately or not!