Really grateful for this site
I just wanted the express my appreciation for this website and the information contained in it. On Sunday, my wife and I will celebrate our 29th anniversary. We have enjoyed much good and sometimes even great sex. In fact, I don’t think it would be a stretch (no pun intended) to say that, next to our Christian faith, sex has been one of the primary cords that has held our marriage together.
Last August, we decided that she needed to move back to CA to take care of her parents. Shortly after arriving there, on one of our long phone calls, she said something completely out of left field that made me get a ruler out and measure my member. Now, I had not done that since I was 21. And I have no idea how I measured back then. But I do remember that I was frustrated that I was “only” 6.75”. While that was on the high side of “normal”, I still wasn’t officially “big”. And according to the pornography I was regularly reading, I wasn’t really “a man”. I then converted to Christianity while attending UCLA, married my wife 5 years later, got rid of the porn and never really thought about it again…until that phone call!
I pulled out the ruler and measured 7.25” BPEL. (I can’t tell you why I thought to measure that way) “It’s ½” bigger!” I thought that it must have been due to either my wife always pulling on me or…maybe it was those exercises (jelqing & edging) I did for about a month in 2008 to try to train myself to last longer! At the time I didn’t realize that my initial ½” of “growth” was probably due to the BP measurement getting rid of my fat pad! So I started researching…
Why? Because my 55 year old skin isn’t quite as sensitive as it used to be and my wife isn’t as tight as she used to be. And although I bought her a set of jade eggs, I knew I couldn’t depend on her to use them faithfully. So, I took matters into my own hands…and found this website.
I started in earnest after Labor Day. I followed Newbie’s advice and worked out every other day. I used Extend’s DMSO/iodine recipe to promote healing after each session. At the recommendation of Tossed Salad, the following morning I applied wheat germ oil in hopes of promoting growth. When she flew out in October, I was 7.5”. By Christmas, I was 7.75”.
Then in January, I read the thread on the benefits of heat and bought an infrared lamp. I then signed up for this website so I could learn how to make a Captain’s Wench. I read Bib’s double fulcrum thread and started hanging. Then I read “The Physics of Water Pumping” and bought a Bathmate.
So now I use heat and my hands to work out at night (My routine is very similar to Magnum XL’s), followed by either stretching or traction wrapping. I then hang the following morning while I read the Bible, and then finish by using the Bathmate in the shower. I then rest 38 hours until the next cycle. I figure that my routine has only added about three hours per week to my schedule.
Anyway, my wife flew out to visit me for our anniversary. Two days ago she noticed because she can no longer fit it all in her mouth! I am now 8.25” BPEL!
Now she wants to know what I am doing.. But that is MyBigSecret!