Need length

So I am a newbie here(not to PE though). I have a bit of a problem. My new girlfriend has told me (yes I asked the stupid question) that her ex was nearly 9” long. I have been working on girth for most of my PE and I am 6.75” (head) -7” mid and base shaft and I know that I am thicker than he was BUT I’m only just over 7” in length so although this isn’t small not the 9” she had (even though it was only blow jobs and not sex). I would like to get to 8” but struggle with increasing length.. Any ideas?

Get ready to be bombarded with picture proof requests.

Have you done any length work at all? I would just try normal length exercises such as stretching and lower erection level jelqing.

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Like G263 advised and after that extending or hanging.

But man focus on the extremely good positives, 9” length that wasn’t even used for sex, might have made her feel really uncomfortable if they did have sex (which they did’nt)., but you have a legit 6.75 to 7 girth. she would have never seen anything close to that I would think. Also how can she confirm that it was 9”?? could have been less

I know the feeling and hope yo feel better soon :)

I’m not really worried about the proof pics I can do those if need be that’s fine. I am not sure how thick he was although she does say that I am thicker. He told her he was 9” which I know doesn’t actually mean he was but she hasn’t said well he was only a little longer then you so I am guessing it was a fair bit longer. In fact she said that she doesn’t think I’m that big I have to admit even being just over 7” in length with the thickness it looks shorter. I am just starting to do length work having basically ignored it as I was always happy with 7” until now that is.

Welcome my friend! My I ask you something?
What will happen if let’s say this relationship doesn’t work and you find a new girl. This girl says she had a 10” boyfriend and so your priorities will be reaching 9” and so on.
You have a really thick cock. (Posting some pictures would really be good.) Don’t overthink about ex-boyfriends or you’ll end up loosing your sleep over something really dumb.
It’s impossible that she won’t be satisfied by your 7”x7” cock.

Yes I guess that would be an issue if I meet a girl like that. I doubt it though as 9 and 10 ” are pretty rare. Being 7x7 I thought I was really big (I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year) she never really mentioned my size which always did make me wonder and its only recently we talked about it. Now I feel short, I know I’m not and I know its actually big but just thinking of her with 9” even lets say it was just 5” around its still freaking huge and like I said mine may be thick but the thickness makes it appear even shorter. I shall have to get stretching.

Time to start stretching and hanging!

As for the other guy, don’t worry. One thing I have noticed that goes on way, way, way too much around here, is that guys put way too much stock in what a woman said about another guy. Look around, in just about all of life’s affairs, people constantly dramatize and exaggerate. Look at the news, celebrity gossip, sports show reviews. It is all drama, drama, drama. Without it, we would be bored I guess. Sad but true.

Just remember, unless you was there to see it and it was measured in front of you, shrug it off and get back to what you need to be doing. Everything else is just arbitrary and a waste of time thinking about.

I shall definitely be doing the stretching, unless I take it further with her and ask again about his size (which might make me sound a bit weird) I don’t think I will ever really know. I’ve never had anyone say anything negative about my penis in fact most girls have told me its the biggest they have seen (girth) and in fact most have even said length. I guess its just that I actually really love this girl and of all the girls who could have had a bigger and it wouldn’t really of bothered me this one it really means something to me. I know she loves me and that is the main thing just can’t get the image of her sucking a 9” one out of my bloody head.. Yes I do realize its me with the problem .not my penis.

Need some help with good length exercises. I am a newbie here but not to PE. I’ve never really grown much in length although I’ve mainly worked on girth. My girlfriend though (as I stupidly asked) told me she had a 9” before. I am just over 7” but I am 7” thickness. I know I am thicker as she told me and that I am not small (though it looks smaller due to length /girth ratio. Would really like to get to 8” length.

LJ1979, I merged your two threads with the same subject and question. Did you forget you had just asked this question a few hours earlier?

No I didn’t but as a newbie I saw that I could only post in certain areas and thought if I posted in both I would get different people answering as more people were in one of the forums than the other.

I can move it to whatever forum you like, but you are getting a pretty good response right here. What you can’t do is ask the same question twice.

That’s fine sorry didn’t realize :)

Man I really really understand, when it is someone you love it is a whole other thing, And it is not weird to ask if it can bring you some closure or peace and you are comfortable together. Right now you think it is 9 right??, but if you ask her (how do you know it is 9” ??) Unless she seen it being measured I will most likely not be 9” as most guys lie about it and most girls believe it (no offence to the ladys), maybe she doesn’t know your length, but knows his was a bit longer and just agrees with 9. she might think yours is 8”

So right now you have nothing to lose by asking, but you can possibly gain, to have the image in your head removed, and that is very very important

It’s been my experience that some things should just remain in the past when it comes to relationships. There are some things you just shouldn’t know about your significant other. Dick size or number of partners and details being on the list. Don’t keep punishing yourself, just let it go. You’re breeding insecurity.