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I did very less sqeezing today. only three strokes each with hand. Edging was great.
My PI’s good and I have alot of time these days but when specially jelqing I am feeling since few days like my penis need rest. I dont know what/why but I feel like my dick is not ready for jelqes for more then 10-15minutes. Or in otherwords my strokes looks hard for my penis. penis looks rigid or tired of my strokes and the veins are visible with each stroke and I can feel that the blood is tensing in my penis small veins. Cant express how it feels.
also my flaccid is little smaller again since few day.
Do you know or anyone else what this feelings are??

Thanks for the clarification! Your post was I think perfect but Its me who Dont undsrstand or speak so good of english. Only simple english I understand fully. Anyway I realy appreciate your answers!

briefly: I will try to stay relaxed and calm. If feel tense then I can reverse kegel to help my erection.
Reguler kegels are best to do it during my PE session.
and here if you want to clarify a little more :)
what you mean by “if I notice tense then let it go or do a revers kegel”. Tension in my penis or overall body? & what to let go?

Well, Im talking about pelvic floor but of course you dont want a tense body too..

Well, the reverse kegel is basicly a counter technique vs. a tense pelvic floor.
Its still an active thing you do.

Like if your arm is tense cause of biceps is cramping you do engage the triceps to counter it.
But if you keep engaging the triceps you are still tense in the arm.

Relaxation is more like the “mid-point”. As in; your arm just dangling relaxed. No biceps, no triceps activation.
So just letting go of the biceps tension. This is a concious decision. “I let go of the tension in my biceps” and then the arm goes relaxed without engaging the triceps to release the biceps.

Same goes for your pelvic floor. You can just let go the tension conciously. (“Im tense in pelvic floor, I let it go”)
But its not always possible cause of a lack of awareness of your muscles. Thus the reverse kegel.

Do a hard kegel.
Then do a hard reverse kegel.(dont press to hard around your ass ;) )
Notice the difference. With some training you will easily play the pelvic floor.

Thank you for another good explaination. Hope you are doing great.
I will explore and learn it by time, I have learned and got much idea from your answers.

Is it okay to turn my routine from 2days on 1off to 1day on 1day off in order to give a bit rest to my dick after a continouse two months of Newbie??

I feel .1 or .2 BPL more in my gains. But my mid shaft girth seems more then base and my glns are the biggest in my penise. Am I getting bate ball shaped dick or its just because of my jelquing and latter I can gain some base girth when I change my recent newbie routine.

Im doing great right now applying what I learned, check my log..

Rest: whatever feels good for you or gives good PI.
I think at some point rest is needed for sure.

Yes jelqs do that.
You can target the base with quiet some stuff.
Heavy stretches(espacially bundled at the base) can do that or bends at the base.(but thats maybe a bit more down the road; advanced)
You can also just jelq the base 3 counts and then 1 count a full jelq. Or one day only focus on your base.

Good!Ok I will see it later.

Apdate about my Gains and PI:

I did edging last night but after ten minutes I shooted the misile lol

I did one day on one day off routine this week and feeling much rested in my dick.
well overall Im now relaxed and improving everyday with my stress and tention. And as Im using Cocoa, almonds nuts, Reverse kegels, etc so My errections are now more better. It seems 90-95% erections but I can keep it for long now and I dont loose my erections easily and I have now marningwoods and nightwoods more often. The last few days I had alot erections. So Im getting confedence and feeling happy and relaxed.
My Fully BPEL is now 6.5 :) when have good erections. but NBP is hardly 5.75.

Question: If I have sex how much of my size (BPEL 6.5) She will feel?? I have no fate but she is Not slim.
Also Im going to have sex in few days. Please give me advice how to please her more and really and last longer!!

Have a good day everyone.

Sounds good. Keep doing what you do.

She probably feel everything.

Start slow. Tell her she smells good and stuff. Kiss her, touch her. If she reacts and likes keep doing that.
progress slowly until you reach the pussy.
If you and her like, lick her clitoris. Test some inside with one finger if she gets wet.
You can try to hit the g spot with the finger.
Whatever she likes keep doing. Tell her you like her reactions.
Thats the foreplay and she had already fun.

If she is wet insert slowly. Aim towards the top side of her pussy with your dick(gspot, anterior fornix). Then go slowly deeper and maybe towards the bottom(“aiming” for her tailbone)

Relax and enjoy. Play with the pace. If you are feeling like you get near you can, instead of fucking in and out with your hips, nudge fuck her.
Basicly moving your pelvis up and down. Your dick is inside where she likes it and your glans goes up and down(or also a bit right and back left and back) without sliding.

If you cum too fast just try to go for a second round. Might take some minutes or an hour. And report how it was :D

(“If you are feeling like you get near you can, instead of fucking in and out with your hips, nudge fuck her.”
Nudge fuck?? )

(“Basicly moving your pelvis up and down. Your dick is inside where she likes it and your glans goes up and down(or also a bit right and back left and back) without sliding.”
I did not understand so much exactly too.)

(“If you cum too fast just try to go for a second round. Might take some minutes or an hour. And report how it was :D “
You mean while cuming I should not stop fucking and try to not loose my erection and keep stroking even while cuming or to stop and when again after a while I get erection I start another round??)
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Probably Im gonna try all this… Thanks
but this Above copied from your answer and I asked where I needed to understand more. Please

foreplay contains no entercourse right?

There are no rules but yes foreplay might be considered no penis in vagina. The more you get into it during foreplay the better for her as she will be relaxed later on.
She needs longer to be ready, and if you get some experience with it you might be able to give her an orgasm without having entered with your dick.
So you might only last 5 minutes with your dick but invested already 10 minutes(or more…30 minutes or an hour) into her.
Its only bad if you just turn her over stick it in and cum in a minute. If you make her feel good during foreplay and then cum in a minute during itnercourse its ok.

Nudge fuck: Imagine it like a seesaw. With your base beeing the middle(pivot) of the seesaw and the seat the glans.
Not back and forth / in and out but more like grinding on a spot.
You can get very tight to her grab her around, kiss her or talk how you like feeling her into her ear, while you just grind and nudge around in her without much back and forth movement. She will like it while you are not too much aroused.

No more ideas to explain it :D

Btw. imagening the foreplay before, while for example alone in bed(without cumming!) will prime you to feel cool with it already. (it wont play out the same)

have fun!

A trick I used a lot in college before I got better at control: If you feel you are getting close then pull out and go down on her for a little bit, then get back in there. Keep switching as much as you need to in order to last as long as you want. Plus she will stay wet and maybe even climax when you go down on her.

Hell, a couple times I pulled out and went down on the girl, I ended up cumming but it was off the bed and she couldnt see it. After some good squeezes and wipes I put it back in and she never knew. BUT, I DO NOT recommend that if you are worried about getting her pregnant, always that possibility.

Also something to add about foreplay; a lot of people focus on the sensual goods like tits and pussy. At the beginning spend very little time there. Kiss anywhere around the hot zones but leave them alone for the first bit. Also kiss/lick any areas that often go untouched: back of knees, toes, feet, under boobs, inside thighs, neck, inside elbow. In the end it really comes down to the girl, play around with everything and see what she responds to most.

Dickerschwanz:

I understood it all now. I appreciate and thank you a lot for guidance and sharing your expereince.

I am off to bed. Sleep well/ Have a nice day

Thanks you Futurmonster sharing your experience and advice. I appreciate it

Hey mates!
Since a week I am not managing much time for my +1hour PE routine. What to do? I can give it half an hour or less or more but Not sure if it’s okay to reduce my routine time from 1 hour to 30 minutes or do it twice or thrice a week with one hour routine will be better.
My current routine is +20minutes of stretching and +3 minutes of jelqing. All the past week I did stretching about 15-20 minutes and managed to do jelqing only 15-20minutes hardly.

Need your suggestions and guidance
Thanks

Also I am doing erect jelqing 75-90/95 erecting. Is that okay?
I felt very better with that for seeing my girth a bit but now It seems like the girth is not the same as earlier days, Seems thinner as before erect jelqing. Also I can see the views very visible now.

Your comments please??