Hoping For A Tighter Fit
I did my first session today. I’ve been contemplating PE for nearly 4 years, but today was my first time doing it. I’m doing JP beginner routine. Warn up with towel, stretches w/ kegels, jelq and v jelq, and warm down.
I got to say my dick is a little sore, or tender might be a better word. I’ve never felt like this. When I was exercising I made sure to go easy. I tried to be very gentle and hardly put any force into any exercise. I rather enjoyed doing it, probably because I’m convinced it’s going to make my dick bigger. But anyway, the tenderness has me a bit concerned. I wonder how normal it is. An hour or so after I finished, my girlfriend gave me a blowjob, and I had to ask her to ease up and be more gentle. My eq seemed normal but it was tender. It still feels tender if I swing it around a bit, tug on it or squeeze it even slightly. Like I can feel it’s damaged deep inside, just slightly though. Hope it’s ok.
The reason I finally decided to do it, is because I want to have more intense sex with my girlfriend. The sex is good now, for me anyhow. She is willing anytime I am, and often initiates more than I do. She offers oral sex very frequently. She claims to have orgasms during intercourse, but it’s hard for me to tell if she really is. I think she doesn’t really know anyway because her sexual experience was extremely limited before me. She says she experienced penetration with 2 men before but she always felt nervous and made them stop after a few minutes. She also says they were smaller than me and she never enjoyed it in the slightest.
For reference my current measurements are 5.25 girth, uniform top to bottom, and about 7.25 nbp length.
I’ve had regular sex with 5 other women in my recent past that I can compare to. 4 of them had regular orgasms through vaginal intercourse. 3 of those girls were a tight to medium fit, and 1 was a bit loose, but still had a ton of vaginal orgasms, possibly due to my length. The one that didn’t have orgasms felt significantly loose.
The fit with my current partner is a bit loose as well. I noticed it the first time we had sex. I didn’t think she was having orgasms and she wasn’t sure either. A few weeks into the sexual relationship, on one occasion I tried squeezing the base of my penis while I penetrated her from behind. It made my penis swell quite a bit in girth, at least half an inch more, and I penetrated her with about 4 or 5 inches of length. She absolutely loved it. She was making all kinds of sounds and seemed very satisfied. After we finished she couldn’t stop talking about it for the whole day. She said she never felt so good in her life. At that time I decided to tell her I was doing a special trick, she thought about it and realized exactly that I was squeezing my penis. She seemed disappointed and stopped talking about how good it felt. After that I tried to do the trick again during intercourse but it no longer had any effect. She seemed uncomfortable with it so I didn’t do it again.
After that we’ve had a lot more sex and sometimes it seems great, but she never seems satisfied like the time I squeezed my penis. She usually screams a lot and seems to enjoy it, but often she asks me to go down on her after I’ve finished and bring her to completion orally. This makes me feel kind of inadequate.
I’d really love to make her satisfied like I did that time before. So I’ve started to do the exercises with the hope that I can increase my girth by at least half an inch. I never bottom out with her either so I think it would help if I had more length too. If anyone has any advice or tips please share with me.
Also, I’d like to experiment with some kind of clamp or cock ring that I can use to increase my girth temporarily during sex.
In the meantime I will continue to exercise and record my progress and issues here.
April 2011, 8" BPEL, 5.25" EG; Goal: 5.75" EG