Can't get out of my head
I’ve been part of the penis enlargement community for some time, not all on this website, but I would say I know a lot of different things (and it’s amazing!)
Just to start off; I have made some extremely nice progress in my penis development. When I started out, I was just under 6” in EL and almost 4.5” EG. Now I am very comfortable with my size at 7.4” EL and very recently just hit 6” EG.
I must say I really am very comfortable with my cock; but I am not going to stop my development, why would I? :) Hearing the comments from my wife won’t make me stop for a VERY long time; She always seems to have something good to say about it. For example, in the morning when we wake up, she almost always comments on my morning wood, because as of recently it has become quite the super hard erection I really like. She said this morning “your cock is so freakin’ huge” and I just looked at her and smiled; and she just grabs hold of it and tells me “look how hard and thick it is, I can’t even fit my whole hand around it, you can really tear up some pussy with this monster”. Which to be fair, was a little odd because she is the only “pussy I’d be tearing up” but anyway, you get the idea, she loves it, I love it, but here comes the problem..
The problem is not been able to last long enough during sex. Now trust me when I say I have tried a lot to get through this. I have read some much information from this forum and various other places to try and help me with it, but I just cannot, no matter what, seem to sort it out. I recently watched a porn video, and it just made me realize how badly I want to be able to last longer and not cum without the first 2-5 minutes of sex. This guy was just pounding his woman like crazy, he wasn’t a porn star or anything, it was just a home video of them both having great sex and he was really pounding her and she was absolutely loving it.
So after watching this it just made me want to be like that even more. Now I have to say I do have a relatively good sex life, my wife really enjoys herself, she loves been eaten out and I love doing that so we can tick that box, and sometimes she wants a quickie before work or something and I don’t mind that, because, well It doesn’t take me too long anyway lol; and my one lucky thing I have is that she does tend to come pretty quick. So let’s say we are having sex and I’m just going at her, she usually says “omg I’m gonna cum” and then she cums and the shaking and what not happens, and that is when I cum too; but I must add, most of the time this happens within the first 2-4 minutes of sex; and recently it had been getting worse it seems. Sometimes we do have slow sensual sex, and I like that because I don’t have to move much and I can just stop if I feel like I’m going to cum, but the worst situation is when she gets on her knees and tells me to do her doggy style; I mean she just looks so goddamn good sat there waiting, and I cannot say no, but doggy style make me cum so quick it’s unreal, like I doubt I can go more than a minute of doggy style sex, but I guess I am a little lucky again because she loves it too and she cums quick; but I’m not satisfied at all with how it is going. I shouldn’t have to make do with the situation I’m in; I have the cock I want (more or less) but not the stamina to match it.
I would really like some guidelines or anything for something that can help me. I have tried so much stuff, I got some Pang Tong delay cream, that stuff did not work at all, it burnt my glans pretty badly I couldn’t do anything for about a week. We were at a sex store a few days ago and I bought some Max 4 Men delay spray stuff, and that is just garbage, doesn’t seem to do anything. I even tried getting some Chloraseptic from Walmart because I read somewhere that it can numb your cock like it numbs your throat, but that was also a dead end. I’ve read so much into kegels and how they can help you with the problem, and that isn’t helping me, I cannot stop thinking about it lately, and it’s really having a negative effect on me, like the first thing I think about just before sex is “how long can I last this time” and I just think about it all the time during sex. I try so hard to not think about it, but I just cannot seem to do it. Please I really need some help for something I can do or something that works. I think it might be psychological issue though, and I’ve no idea what to do.
If anyone would like to know some of my routine or what I do, Then I will gladly make another post explaining it, but until then, I need something to help me with cumming too soon.