An introduction and my starting point.

Hello Everyone,

I’ve just discovered this place recently after being motivated to start thinking about PE again. I first was introduced to the idea back in the early 2000’s, and I briefly gave it a go. The wife (at the time) never had any complaints but it was kind of a personal experiment then. I noted girth gains but she asked me to stop. So I left it alone, but the thought of wanting to go back always stayed in my mind to some degree.

Over the years I had few girlfriends and no complaints, and positive comments at times, but like most men I still always felt some level of wanting more or at least wanting to know if I could be more. I figure its just natural for a man (and likely women as well) to have those thoughts

As for my motivation, its a bit egocentric but I’m not ashamed of it. The current woman in my life recently revealed to me that she believes her first was, in her words, “probably 8 or 9 inches.” I never thought that hearing that would bother me as much as it does, but it really did a number on me. And with that I found you all.

So here I am, absolutely motivated to make gains and be comparable to something that she isn’t even actually sure of. But to be honest I’m glad for it, because this is something that I’ve wanted before. So if it takes feelings of competition to get me going, I welcome it.

So here is where I begin my journey:
- Age 40
- Weight 296lbs
- BPEL 7in
- EG 5.75in

Please note that those numbers are my 100% EQ, but I’m pretty sure my average EQ sits around 80 to 90%.

As for my goals, the dream is of course to be 8 or 9 inches. But my realistic goals are BPEL 7.5in, EG 6in, growing my flaccid length to 5 inches. Currently its atrociously small most of the time, with a lot of turtling on a regular basis, and I believe that’s due to my fat pad. Which is why I’ve already starting working on losing weight with the goal of 200lbs. If I didn’t grow a single centimeter anywhere else but my flaccid length, I’d be satisfied with that.

For full disclosure, I started my PE a week ago as well as my weight loss. I want to update this thread every 6 weeks or so for myself and for anyone who may want to read the progress of others.

Thank you all for welcoming me to the path.

Welcome Will!

Wish you the best!

Thanks Lenny,

I appreciate the welcome.

In effort to make this my progress thread I should go ahead and add this note. In effort to find a consistent way of measurement I changed my method from sitting on the edge of the bed to lying flat on my back. At my weight I have a fat pad and I since I’m losing weight I thought to eliminate it or minimize it in the measurements from the start. Apparently I was onto something because I gained a full .5in on the measurement. I had to check it three times to be certain but there it was.

Updated stats are:
Lying down BPEL 7.5in
EG 5.75in

I won’t check measurements again until the end of 6 weeks, but I’m glad I did this to avoid any false positives I would have gotten further down the road.

Welcome to Thunders, you have a big cock, and don’t hang your hat on the above statement. Seriously, did she pull a tape measure out?

Women and cock size is like dudes on a fishing trip. The fish caught gets bigger and bigger with every moment beyond the day it was caught. In addition, how she felt that day will impact her perception of whether it should be considered a big cock or small cock.

He probably had nothing on you, regardless of reality, that’s what you should be thinking.

Welcome to Thunders and enjoy the process!

Hello W2W. I reckon with the fitness stuff added, you will romp it in …. if you are half as committed as some of the dudes around here that had similar start stats, you’ll very very proud of yourself (and fitter and healthier to boot)!! Cheers

Hi LittleEngine,

I totally understand that. I’m not obsessed with it and I definitely acknowledge that she isn’t even sure what she saw back then. I use it as something that just gets me off of my ass really. Sometimes I have to fool myself a little bit to get the ball rolling with any real momentum. It bothered me and since I want to do PE in a committed fashion, I allow myself to believe it to some extent if it keeps me focused. The moment I see my own gains it probably won’t even be a factor, and its much less a factor already. Odd as it sounds I’m just enjoying the process.

Beyond all that, I appreciate you wanting to get my head straight. That’s what I like about these forums in the first place. Everyone wants to keep everyone mentally straight, and in a healthy mindset. Everyone here has been great to each other from what I’ve seen.

Thanks Impressed! I hope to be able to post some progress after the start is complete. Not in measurements but rather my commitment to the process of PE and primarily weight loss. I’m honestly not expecting gains in PE for a long long time and that’s perfectly fine.