Happy to go to the urinal

As a newbie, I thought I was the only one who was embarrased to pee at an open urinal. I’ve done my share of hiding, with my little dick, in the stall. Hopefully, I’ll be able to accomplish some of the improvements that you all have enjoyed. I can’t think of anything more enjoyable than hanging out a reasonalbe size dick at the urinal.

Yep, that’s about right. The only reason I’m here is so the other guys have something more exciting to look at when we’re standing at the urinal.

What’s that? I’m not gay?!? Oh well, maybe I’ll have to start pissing in the ladies then.

LB

Oh yeah, that will go done real well in Communist China!
I can see the headlines now “PE’er shot in Tienanmen Square for penile disobedience”

I don’t know, they are quite forward thinking in Shanghai, plus the men’s loos tend to really stink - Holes in the ground.

Anyway, it’s OK they don’t shoot you here anymore. They hang you.
Maybe I can persuade them to tie it onto my cock for a bit of full body weight stretching!?!

LB

Noose my cock?! You can kill me but don’t kill my poor little cock! :D

Why? Are you hoping to get some use from it once you’re dead?

Okay, you all are talking about this peeing shyness. I had a good laugh at the following article. Have a read of it (the solutions are sensical though):

Urination shyness

Some men find it difficult to urinate in the presence of other men. They cannot urinate in a public toilet if anyone else is there. The muscles that control urination tighten up, stopping the flow. This is called ‘parauresis’ or ‘bashful bladder syndrome’. According to doctors in the armed forces – who know about servicemen living in open barracks – it is quite common and possibly one in ten men are affected. It can be distressing, because it can limit your activities if you are unable to urinate away from home. And some people worry that others might assume they are gay because they are spending so long at the urinal.

What causes ‘bashful bladder?
There is nothing physically wrong. It does not mean that there is anything amiss with your bladder or urethra. No-one knows what causes it, but it seems to be an exaggeration of something that most men experience slightly. Research has shown that when a stranger is nearby, most men take slightly longer to start their urine flow, and pass urine for a shorter length of time.

A doctor writing in the medical journal The Lancet (Lancet 1999;354:78) has a suggestion. He points out that many male mammals mark their territory by urinating to leave their scent. He wonders if modern men with the problem are subconsciously thinking ‘If I urinate in this other male’s presence, I am asserting my supremacy over his territory – am I really ready to challenge this male to a fight’, and this prevents them from urinating.

What you can do

* Try doing a series of mathematical calculations in your head. This activates the cortex of the brain and blocks the inhibiting impulses to the bladder. A report in The Lancet as long ago as 1981 suggested this as an effective remedy.
* Breathe in deeply and tighten your pelvic muscles, as if you are pulling your anus (back passage) inwards. Then relax and breathe out. Repeat until you start to pass some urine.
* If it is really affecting your life, you could get help from a behaviour therapist, who would teach you anxiety-reducing techniques and gradually help you to get used to passing urine when others are nearby.

That’s a very good point, one does not know if one is straight or gay when at those urinals. Sometimes mine have stage flight and other times the pee flows right out.Sometimes I like to see what the other guys has as compared to mine. When mine is showing off its 5inch fallid I don’t mind it being looked at, proud of it. I think I like to show off the my results from PE/