I have a problem with the hanger (Bib starter) sliding down to rest on the glans. I have tried various wraps and adjusted it to very tight and it still does the same thing. I am trying to hang 10 lbs,but the head turns purple with white ring around the ridge and i have to take it off as i don’t want an injury. The skin and hanger both slide down over approximately 1/3 of the head. Any suggestions?