Ok, so then if I’m not applying the hanger or wrap the right way, I would have to loosen it. I have a feeling the pain comes from a combo of super tightness and the hanger sliding down and balancing on the rim of the glans rather than the inner penis above the glans. But unfortunately no matter how hard I clamp the hanger down on my unit, it still doesn’t stop it from sliding down to the glans. I read people talking about it resting on the shoulders, but every time I apply, my glans seem to be the only shoulders. I was thinking about applying it with the tiniest bit of blood engorged at the head and body above the hanger, but eventually I speculate it will drain out and the hanger will slide even worse, and if not, I know I’m not supposed to hang with the head engorged. Are the shoulders the actual mid to upper inside shaft, is there a common reason why it won’t grip that inner shaft enough to not be resting on the head when hanging?
Also, the ads thing you mentioned seems like a good solution if any (the bigger pants) but what about underwear, doesn’t that support defeat the purpose of hanging? Or if no underwear, what about when you sit? Personally when I sit my dick already rests on the seat between my other two legs, how do you get it to stretch out then? When I thin about it I imagine a goal for a constant all day stretch force, but one bending of the leg, or sitting down will alter the magnitude of that force or completely take it away.
Please take a minute and understand the concept of PULSE PUSHING the hanger forward after tightening maybe 20% or so, to ensure that you are actually grasping the internals, before tightening completely.
What I used to do in the past and which was obviously wrong: I attached the hanger as far as I could from the head, because logically I thought that would prevent the hanger from ending up at the head. Then I tightened extremely tight WITHOUT moving the hanger. What invariably happened each and every time was that the hanger had NOT grasped the structures and slid very painfully towards the head when I attached the weights. It ended up resting right at the head and possibly restricted some by skin. Lousy technique in other words.
The correct way to attach the hanger is this: 1-2 inches from the head. Maybe 2 1/2 or 3 even. This is not what matters. What matters is that when you have tightened 20% or so and ensured a good position in the hanger, you need to pull the hanger towards your head in a light and playful manner. The hanger will slide some and you will notice that shoulders are forming. Pull even a little harder to ensure that everything FEELS good and that the hanger is at a comfortable place.
When this is done, tighten towards 75-85% or so. You can leave some tightening for later in the set if you need it.
Pull harder after you have tightened to ensure that everything is good.
THEN attach the weights. Done properly, you will have no surprises and enjoy a comfortable hanging set. Well, obviously hanging is not as comfortable as receiving a massage or a blowjob, but it should not be significantly discomfortable unless you are into extreme hanging.
I hope that helped.