My marriage is less than six years old and we have done some shit to each other in that time, so I understand.
She asked me yesterday to look at her foot because she stepped on something and I told her to go see a doctor. I rejected her attempt for me to touch her and I regretted doing that.
She is camped out in the spare room at present and so the last thing I wanted to do was touch her.
She came to me again tonight and I ended up in the bathroom with her rubbing her foot and running a bath for her before leaving.
Now we are back to our separate rooms while a vicious storm rages outside and stops me from walking my dear dog for fear of frost bite.
Regarding hanging, twenty minutes is a bit long for my comfort with loss of blood to the glans so I break up the set.
It’s so much easier to give advice than to take it or receive it, but maybe go back to the things that brought you together in the beginning.
Many times we have obvious signs that we ignore. Don’t kick yourself too hard - just make every effort to not miss the next. Maybe even go into her room or just leave her an “I love you” note.
What do you use to hang? What hanger?
Serious starting point: Nov. 2, 2009/BPEL 5.75 x 4.75 inches.
Current BPEL 7 1/2 x 5.5 inches.
Goal: BPEL 8 x 6 inches.