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Looking For Some Motivation

Looking For Some Motivation

So I’ve been out of the game for about 3 months. I was never really fully on board in the first place. If I gained anything it was miniscule (maybe a nano meter). Recently I measured up and I’m just slightly over 5” on a maxed out erection with all my pubes shaved. I’m definitely on the smaller side. I’m not looking to get super big. I’d def be happy with .25 an inch. The problem is I just feel like I’ve lost all motivation and faith towards PE. After all I’m still not even fully convinced this stuff works. On top of that I’m terrified of penis extenders even after going to my urologist and having him recommend me one reassuring me they’re safe. I find penis extenders super uncomfortable/painful after awhile. They also intefere with my schedule. I work in the evenings and go to the gym in the morning. It’s super doable but I’d have to lose a bit of sleep to get my 4hr minimum in. With all that said, we’re almost into a new year, and I’d really love to go into 2019 with a bigger dick. I know the dick don’t make the man but I feel like even a slighly bigger penis would give me the confidence boost I’ve been after for so long. Really what I’m looking for here is a pep talk of some sort. Some one to reinstill my faith. At the start I was excited af. Now my extender collects dust. I feel my biggest obstacle is my skepticism. I just feel like maybe this stuff is bogus. Idk, thanks for listening to my ramble. Any advice is appreciated.

First I want to say that I was once in your shoes before I started. It didn’t make sense to me that you could make your penis bigger because at the time I thought if it were true, everyone would know about it.

However, I assure you PE does work. I have gained about a half inch but many guys here have gained a whole lot more. It takes time and day by day it seems like it all may be for nothing. I’m a regular guy just like you I don’t gain anything from telling you this. If you want more assurance besides this forum, simply google “penis traction studies” and click away on the numerous studies that have proven the effectiveness of extenders.

You say you were never fully onboard. Did you follow the newbie routine with any discipline, or did you half-ass it?


Why the Smithsonian? Because you could walk around it for a week and not see the whole thing.

Originally Posted by The Smithsonian
You say you were never fully onboard. Did you follow the newbie routine with any discipline, or did you half-ass it?

I mean I wasn’t extending every single day. A couple of weeks after I got my extender I went on a cruise vacation. I tried to extend during that time but I quickly realized that was gonna fuck up my vacation. I think thats what really broke my momentum. I decided not to do the newbie routine tho. I’m scared of manual excercises, they’re not clinically backed and might be dangerous. I plan on just solely extending.

Man, don’t lose faith. This is my first reply/ post/ whatever you want to call it. Hopefully this will motivate you, but you HAVE to be dedicated. Like over half the people here, I’ve been lurking around these forums for the entire time I’ve been PEing. I started out at 5.5in NBPEL and 5in in girth (I’m not big on BPEL, I’m about what can be seen, your partner can feel the rest later). After 18 months of dedicated extending 8-9 hours a day, I have gained 1.25 inches. I am now 6.75in NBPEL and 5.5in in girth. I’ve also added some mild daily hanging to my routine along with about 200 jelqs. It’s really all about setting small goals, having extreme patience, and keeping the measuring to a minimum. I’d say measure every 2-3 months. But PE is very real, it’s insane actually. I use to pray for what I have now. I was totally obsessed with being bigger, and then I decided to take matters into my own hands (quite literally), and now I am bigger. Good luck man!

Originally Posted by Slugger86
Man, don’t lose faith. This is my first reply/ post/ whatever you want to call it. Hopefully this will motivate you, but you HAVE to be dedicated. Like over half the people here, I’ve been lurking around these forums for the entire time I’ve been PEing. I started out at 5.5in NBPEL and 5in in girth (I’m not big on BPEL, I’m about what can be seen, your partner can feel the rest later). After 18 months of dedicated extending 8-9 hours a day, I have gained 1.25 inches. I am now 6.75in NBPEL and 5.5in in girth. I’ve also added some mild daily hanging to my routine along with about 200 jelqs. It’s really all about setting small goals, having extreme patience, and keeping the measuring to a minimum. I’d say measure every 2-3 months. But PE is very real, it’s insane actually. I use to pray for what I have now. I was totally obsessed with being bigger, and then I decided to take matters into my own hands (quite literally), and now I am bigger. Good luck man!

Thanks man, this helps alot. I have a couple of questions tho. How far did you extend in comparison to your nbel? My nbel is around 5”. I can only comfortably extend to about 4.7”flaccid, not my full erect length. Should that be enough to produce erect gains even tho its below my nbel? I plan on measuring in 6weeks and adding some bars if there’s absolutely no gains. Also, when you added bars was it safe for you to add .5cm at a time? Thanks again though man. I’m gonna persevere through this shit until I see some fucking gains.

Some people say they’ve gained from stretching lightly, which I have no reason to doubt them at all. Everybody is different. What worked for me may not work for you, but the way I have extended and still extend is I stretch past my erection length NBPEL. I personally feel like this may be something to work up to. I wouldn’t start out that way, build yourself up to it over time. I also use the X4 extender with the comfort straps. The comfort strap is way more comfortable than any noose style extender in my opinion. I’ve tried the Andropenis, it was too painful for me. But again, everybody is different.

As far as the bars go, once I started feeling like my dick didn’t have a tight stretch in the extender, I would move up a quarter of an inch bar at a time and then adjust the extender to what I felt was the best tension.

And I wanted to add this, the time I spend in an extender is limited to how long I can handle it for any given amount of time, which mean some days I take a lot of bathroom breaks. I haven’t ever spent any longer than 2 hours in it at one time. Sometimes I might only wear it for 30-45 minutes at a time before I have to remove the extender and let my cock breathe, sometimes I can wear it longer, every interval is different. I keep a log on my person to log all the the time I have it on and the time I take it off, so at the end of the day I have an exact total. It’s helped me.

Originally Posted by Slugger86
Some people say they’ve gained from stretching lightly, which I have no reason to doubt them at all. Everybody is different. What worked for me may not work for you, but the way I have extended and still extend is I stretch past my erection length NBPEL. I personally feel like this may be something to work up to. I wouldn’t start out that way, build yourself up to it over time. I also use the X4 extender with the comfort straps. The comfort strap is way more comfortable than any noose style extender in my opinion. I’ve tried the Andropenis, it was too painful for me. But again, everybody is different.

As far as the bars go, once I started feeling like my dick didn’t have a tight stretch in the extender, I would move up a quarter of an inch bar at a time and then adjust the extender to what I felt was the best tension.

And I wanted to add this, the time I spend in an extender is limited to how long I can handle it for any given amount of time, which mean some days I take a lot of bathroom breaks. I haven’t ever spent any longer than 2 hours in it at one time. Sometimes I might only wear it for 30-45 minutes at a time before I have to remove the extender and let my cock breathe, sometimes I can wear it longer, every interval is different. I keep a log on my person to log all the the time I have it on and the time I take it off, so at the end of the day I have an exact total. It’s helped me.

Thanks bruh. This helps alot!

Originally Posted by Slugger86
Man, don’t lose faith. This is my first reply/ post/ whatever you want to call it. Hopefully this will motivate you, but you HAVE to be dedicated. Like over half the people here, I’ve been lurking around these forums for the entire time I’ve been PEing. I started out at 5.5in NBPEL and 5in in girth (I’m not big on BPEL, I’m about what can be seen, your partner can feel the rest later). After 18 months of dedicated extending 8-9 hours a day, I have gained 1.25 inches. I am now 6.75in NBPEL and 5.5in in girth. I’ve also added some mild daily hanging to my routine along with about 200 jelqs. It’s really all about setting small goals, having extreme patience, and keeping the measuring to a minimum. I’d say measure every 2-3 months. But PE is very real, it’s insane actually. I use to pray for what I have now. I was totally obsessed with being bigger, and then I decided to take matters into my own hands (quite literally), and now I am bigger. Good luck man!

I’ve only been back at it for 2 weeks but I’ve been super consistent. Managing around 4hrs a day for the past 14 days or so. I know I’ve gotta be patient but I’m really thirsty to see some fucking gains. Should I jump the gun and measure or would 2weeks be way too soon for noticeable gains? Thanks

Originally Posted by KingKobra

I’ve only been back at it for 2 weeks but I’ve been super consistent. Managing around 4hrs a day for the past 14 days or so. I know I’ve gotta be patient but I’m really thirsty to see some fucking gains. Should I jump the gun and measure or would 2weeks be way too soon for noticeable gains? Thanks

I don’t think I would bother measuring after just 2 weeks.But you probably shouldn’t listen to me. I only measure once a year at best 🙂


Busy Building a big dick with AM 2.

Originally Posted by The Wizard
I don’t think I would bother measuring after just 2 weeks.But you probably shouldn’t listen to me. I only measure once a year at best 🙂

Once a year? 😂 Thats not enough. You gotta check to make sure ya routines working lol

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