Your Erection after days of not ejaculating?

So quite a lot of guys on here chose not to ejaculate at all or very rarely. I find If I do not ejaculate for like 4 days or more my penis just gets too sensitive and does not get that hard either. It is a very weird feeling and I just need to come to make my balls feel better. Sometimes I have the feeling my balls keep me from getting hard as they just really need to empty….

I am I the only one whose erections level gets affected by not ejaculating for a while?

Nope, me also.

I’m the opposite. It’s super erect after three days though I do get that feeling in my balls. I notice precum really becomes an issue. Random erections are much more frequent as well.

It is really weird it can almost make me feel woozy hence that I can’t get a good erection at that point. Really annoying as I rather have it be like Titleist above. Key for me seems to be to ejaculate on the fourth day with great rockhard erections on the 2nd and 3rd day..

I can’t say that extended periods of no ejaculation have that much effect on EQ but like Titleist, I really feel it in my balls and I get really sensitive around the glans; makes it hard to have any staying power that first time. So I usually tend to let her have her way with me and I come pretty fast (about 10 minutes). Then after a few minutes of refrac, I can get down to business and we can really take our time.

I generally try to not let myself go longer than a few days without ejaculating though - as a man in my 40’s, prostate issues are a real convern for me so I do things and take lots of supplements to keep it healthy. Regular ejaculation is one of the best ways to keep it healthy so even if she and I can’t get together, I’ll rub one out just for “maintenance purposes.”

If I don’t ejaculate for a few days then I increasingly find more women attractive and increasingly have sexual thoughts, and get frequent random erections. If I keep busy during a dry spell then my libido drops and the erections are less frequent.

Also, jerking off decreases my erection hardness, but increases my sexual thoughts. But great sex increases my libido, hardens my erections for 1-2 days after, and I can’t stop thinking about sex. Being a man is difficult.

No ejaculation couples with no porn makes me crazy horny for the wife. I feel like I’m 18 again.

Weird… The opposite happens to me.

Psychological matter maybe?

If I have more than 3 days without cuming then I start to have really hard erections and think about sex every minute. I usually masturabate every 2 days.

Well I have this too but after a certain amount of days this starts to reverse. So I get all what you guys are feeling but after 4 or 5 days (got to time it exactly next time) this reverses and I gets more tough to get an erection and I just really need to cum.

If I don’t ejaculate for a few days, my cum actually becomes yellowish. And when I did not ejaculate during my previous attempts at PE, I would get clogs in my urine.. That’s why I decided to ejaculate after every training this time.

P.S. That might in fact not be necessary since I mostly keep hard with kegels now rather than edging, but I don’t want to take the risk.

I’m like you. If I go 2-3 days without orgasm — especially if, beforehand, I was ejaculating frequently — my erections reach peak hardness. However, if I go 5-7 days or longer without orgasm, this starts to reverse, and my libido often drops away somewhat. The first time after a long break, my orgasm tends not to even feel very good — I think the contraction muscles weaken from disuse.

I like this thread. It’s nice to see that there’s wide variation in what’s “normal” in terms of the relationships among ejaculation frequency, libido, erection quality, etc.

This has happened to me from time to time and I use to freak out when I saw this and thought something was terribly wrong. After a bit of research, I found that this happens to a large percentage of the male population and is caused by any number of things like diet, aging, time between ejaculations, etc. There are could be some other underlying problems but only in drastic cases where it’s always discolored.

I took the theory for a test drive to check and masturbated or had sex every day for two weeks. Every load was milky white and fairly thick (I tried to maintain a constant diet and fluid intake as well). I did the opposite for the next two weeks - no masturbation and no sex, same diet. Aside from being very irritable from not getting any, the theory was confirmed: my semen was pretty runny and had a slight yellowish tint. Also, the volume wasn’t as high as I expected, and the intensity was really decreased. Things cleared up after another ejaculation the next day and everything went back to normal.

Lesson learned: keep the pipes free and clear and always stay loaded with fresh bullets.

As many have indicated in their recent posts here, I also find that if I have not climaxed for 3-4 days my erections are so much firmer. I also experience a much higher level of libido. I returned to the gym 2 1/2 months ago. I also experience a much higher level of horniness within a couple hours of completing my workout.

I do recall that several years ago if I would edge frequently in a single day I would get an intense aching in my testicles. This aching would subside rather quickly if I would masturbate to completion.

Probably, I just get extra horny from random stuff after prolonged periods of edging w/out ejaculating.