On the original topic, I got the “it feels so much bigger” comment about 3 weeks ago, and there is a definite marked increase in how often we have sex. Also she never used to initiate sex and since her comment she is in the mood and ready to go before I’ve even noticed.
I’m sorry, maybe because English is not my native languague I didn’t mean to cause arguments or problems.
I understand now, with 4 kids involved it is a whole different story. About the girl I think I would give an update on my thread.
Ahora:Longitud: 18 BP Grosor: :littleguy avanzado a los 14 EG.
I’m about to consider cheating with all the girls that literally are waiting.
Chances are that solution will end you and your kids in a divorce as well.
I am in a similar situation, lots and lots of sex in the beginning, dwindling down to sometimes once a week, sometimes once every two weeks, and yet, the occasional 3 nights in a row (just to throw me off!). The sex, although has lost frequency, has never lost any intensity, which I am hoping is a good sign. She has also been dealing with trying different medications for chronic pain which are known as a major libido killer, but has been doing that since we met. I miss the sex though., and a part if me is probably doing PE to try and excite her more (can you guess which part?) She doesn’t know about my PE yet though. I just can’t figure out the secret to consistently turning her on, and like you, I seem to be doing everything I can (fit, generous in bed, etc.)
I feel your pain, and if I knew the answer I’d tell you. I do know however, cheating is not the answer.
Based on my humble experience the sex is always good and frequent when you first start a relationship and continues so until your girlfriend learns that you are not going to commit to marrying her. That is you like the sex and don’t want to ruin a good thing. But being foolish you think that the sex is great so why not get married to this fantastic girl. Guess what happens. She gets pregnant and your sex life begins to decline for all those reasons about not not feeling well and having to take care of baby and herself. Your left holding your dick in your hands and it’s damn frustrating. I know that I always got more sex with a new girlfriend until it became obvious that I had no plans to marry her. Women use sex to gain commitment from men and when they have it they then turn down the frequency to suit them. I call it Bait and Switch!
Originally Posted by avantasia
Have you gained a lot of weight? do yoy ignore here? are you treating her bad? are you still doing romantic things for her? do you still surprise her with new details and exciting adventures?
I am and I’ve always been very thin, I care for her a lot, to the point she actually feels grateful (even too much, sometimes) for my support. Unfortunately, for my job we can’t live together like we did; now we spend together perhaps a week every month, so her priority in that week is far from sex.
My greatest hope is for her to come back being like she used to, when she’ll be able to move and come living with me again.
Originally Posted by cantlook
I do know however, cheating is not the answer.
Yes, but I can’t pretend this situation makes cheating more and more tempting.