Wife said, "no!"

After 3 months of a purely manual routine and minimal gains, I decided to ask my wife if I could get a pump. I would prefer a Bib, but I realize I cannot put in enough time, and if she caught me hanging weights from my penis I don’t know what would happen. I’m not saying pumping my penis up would be a more appealing option to her, but I thought I would have a better chance. Nope. She now officially thinks I’m nuts. Damn, I fucking hate manual stretching.

But your studying psychology, the officially makes you insane. ;) Seriously, I think you just need to persuade here better. There is tons of techniques to get what you want. I only have a surface idea of persuasion psych and nlp.

With hanging, I think you should multi-task. All those chapters of reading for class. Do so when hanging. Bring in an alarm clock and set it for 20 minutes, so you don’t forget about your dick. Anything is possible, you just have to analyze it.

You majorly fucked the whole thing up dude. You handed her your balls when you asked permission. You did get gains. You have only been doing this for 3 months after all. You should be able to eliminate the “it doesn’t work” part of the discussion. You have safety and cost to contend with, we know its safe but how do you convince an outsider to pe? I don’t know your financial situation, but a quality pump is not going to be free even if it is not completely out of the question. Then there is the “your size is perfect” avenue. I don’t know what your size is if you are >7” long you’re gonna have a tougher sale than someone who is only long. I got my pump by selling my wife on getting some new toys for our toy box. I knew she had secretly lusted over the “rabbit pearl” for some time. I told her I would get it for her and the pump for myself. She readily agreed. (She does love that bunny).

Is your wife a trained psych student or better? If not, you have to work on getting what you want. Find something mutually satisfying like the good doctor above me said.

rabbit pearl? whats that, Im interested…

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Thanks Twat and Luv

My mind powers are of no use to me with my wife, I start blabbering like an idiot. She has no formal psychology education, but things are diffferent with her, I just can’t bullshit her. I get nervous and embarrased when I talk about PE in general, the pump discussion went to shit rather quickly. She’s happy with my size, but I would just like one more inch, for me. She’s pretty orthodox in bed (and I don’t mean she’s religious…I wish I knew how to put in a smiley face) and I don’t think I can convince her. Unfortunately, I don’t think an inch is going to happen with manuals. I think you’re on track with the bribe idea Luv, I just need to figure out what she really wants…that I might otherwise bust her balls about. I’ll keep everyone updated.

Luv,

Do you let her see you in the pump? Probably not the right thread for this, but, how’s the pumping going. Maybe I can get some joy vicariously through you.

Dude, don’t you know about Google??

Google search for "rabbit pearl ."

Ah, a girl that can just look through you. I remember I had one like that once. Utter joy! I could only fib to her when pulling off one of my little gag gift stunts to her.

I think it is just a condition to work through. Learning to get what you want is healthy in a relationship. It is possible and workable.

What are you thinking of now an ADS or extender instead?

rushmore - the smilies are easy to do. At the bottom of almost every page is a box with the label “Forum Rules:”. One of the things in there says “Smilies are ON” Click on the word Smilies and a new window opens with lots of things to choose from. Just type what’s on the left side to get the smiley on the right.

A simple smiley face is : ) or :) .

I think you’re wrong here. Many of our members do not own a hanger, a pump, a PowerJelq or anything other than their hands. And a lot of them got their inch.

Positive thoughts bring positive results.

Just get the pump, don’t let any women de-ball you. Once you let them take them it’s hard to get them back. Good luck Bro

That is your dick right? Since when does a guy need permission to do what he wants to his own dick? (just kidding bro)

I’d just let her know that you’re getting the pump, end of the story. Atleast its better than telling her after you get the pump. You can make her really mad, or kind of mad.

Either way, hang in there.

westla90069 - “I think you’re wrong here. Many of our members do not own a hanger, a pump, a PowerJelq or anything other than their hands. And a lot of them got their inch.”

I agree with westla90069 on this one. I was doing a 30 min pure stretch routine for +/-4 weeks and I gained .4 inch… I think you or most anyone should be able to gain an inch if they work at it. I only was stretching up/down/right/left/straight out, I didnt hang or anything. I think I could get better results if I started to hang, but Im pretty much done in the length department. If I do anything I will be trying to add girth, but if I do I will have to make sure gains are slow cause my gf is getting mad at me for my increases. :(

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I appreciate all of the replies. It’s a little more difficult than it might seem when your married. It’s actually her penis too, and I want to keep it that way. I’ll slowly try to win her over, but it’s going to take plenty of time. Thanks Westla :blue:

Twat, you’re funny. “Honey can I have a pump?” “No, but I’m completely fine with you keeping youre penis in an extended state all day with an ADS.”

hmmm now that I have seen the rabbit pearls I would be very scared to get my gf something like that! Im sure she would enjoy it better than me! My gf wants a dildo, but will not buy one herself she wants me to pick and choose, its defiantly not gonna be that!!! lol Ill never get any if I bought her that she would never be horny for me lol only the for stupid vibrator!

grrr very touch subject for me because I want to buy her something to use but I hate the fact that she would be using it instead of me… I would feel crushed if she wanted some toy in stead of me, already being too big for her there wouldn’t be anything I could do to please her more…..

grrrrrr so frustrated!!! lol

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