What to do?

I’ve been obsessed with PE, yanking, bending and yanking some more. PE really works and things have been going great. After reading many threads where some of you guys have told your s/o about PE, I told my wife. She didn’t object and was luke-warm about the whole thing. Things were still going great, even got some good comments from the wife about a bigger dick. Sex feels better than ever for both of us and my ego has gotten a major boost through all this. And then there was last Sat.

We were having a good session - lots of moaning and screaming. I was charting new territory in her pussy, going where this man has never gone before. It felt great. Afterward, she said, “It’s official, your dick is too big. You have to stop your exercises. It started hurting when you were pounding away.”. I told her I would stop and now wish I hadn’t agreed. I’m not ready to quit PE, dammit. Not only is it addictive, but I haven’t reached my goal of 8X6.

I know I’m being selfish and greedy and a liar, but I haven’t stopped yet. I want to continue stealth PE until I get that last 1/2 inch in length. I don’t want to hurt my wife and will avoid pounding in some of the more deep positions and will make sure she is comfortable.

So what should I do here guys? Should I continue in stealth mode and deal with consequences? Or should I stop now and be happy with what I’ve got? Or should I be honest and tell her that I’ve decided to go for another 1/2 inch?

Damn this is frustrating, and just when things were growing again.

Stealth or quit, don’t tell her… ;)

Tell her you are not going to quit. You are going to learn how to fuck with a bigger dick so as to give maximum pleasure without inducing pain. Its a learning curve. I would be honest. Don’t ask permission. Just calmly and firmly inform her that this is how its gonna be. Its something that you need for you. You will learn not to hurt her. Take your time. Let her ride on top to control the penetration depth and force. She’ll also learn how much she likes the bigger you with time.

I think you should PE for yourself first and foremost. Get that extra half inch and learn to use that big dick on your wife and watch her moan in ecstacy!

What is your current size by the way, if you don’t mind me asking?

I’m sure her vagina will adapt to your penis with time. If she finds out you’re still PEing, tell her you’re doing maintenance to keep things healthy and to avoid losing gains. While she’s not watching, grab that last 1/2 inch you’ve been wanting.

Okay not to throw this topic off course here, but does the vagina actually adapt to the bigger penis permanently? As for whether or not to stop, I have read before the vagina can be at different elasticity at different times of the month, so I would wait a couple days or a week before making the final decision.

Good advice guys. Luv, your comments remind me that it’s too easy to give control over to the wife. That happens often enough and doesn’t need to happen here. Like Jelqist said, I’m doing this for myself. Why is that so hard to remember?

Tom - I’m glad you brought that up, because right now is a short time of the month. I’ll have to pay attention a couple of weeks from now to see how things fit. And KOG, I’m curious like Tom, does the vagina permanently adadpt? I was under the impression that it could adapt a little during any given session and then return to normal.

OK, onward and outward. I’m going for that last 1/2 inch!!

By the way, Jelqist, I’m currently 7.5X5.75 but am on a growth spurt for length right now. Length seems to come in waves while girth is shrinking. My girth used to be 6 inches, but I have been only doing stretches for the last couple of months and I’ve lost a bit. I can’t believe I’m saying this, but I’m glad I lost a little girth because my wife loves giving oral and 6 was too much for comfort.

I am just curious what your routine is Titan because most people would say that you don’t lose the girth as you elongate the penis. At least in hanging it just pulls out from the base according to Bib (think it was Bib, not trying to misplace credit), much like an ice cream cone. Sorry this was a question more for my personal edification. Good luck with the last 1/2”.

Tom,

I was under the impression that stretching develops more girth at the base and that seems to be the case here. I have always measured girth mid-shaft and I have lost some girth there.

My whole routine used to consist of only two exercises, manual stretching and a semi-erect bend that I developed a while back. Over the last 6 weeks I have almost eliminated the bend and have concentrated on stretching (at my wife’s request). I have a possible explanation about the girth thing. My bend develops HUGE internal pressure and leaves my dick aching for at least a day. I’m convinced that the bend added temporary girth that lasted several days. Since I never took any days off, my measurements included that temporary gain. Now that I’m hardly doing the bend anymore, that extra girth has gone away.

I’m working on a theory that shows the effects of this bend (or anything that develops significant internal pressure) on manual stretches. Since that’s all I’ve ever done, I’m a good test subject. I’ll start a new thread when I get this figured out, but I need another month or so of data to be sure of this idea. Hopefully by then, I’ll also have that last half inch.

I know I’m a greedy bastard, but I can live with that.

As for the vagina thing, I wanted to say a little thing or two.

When I first met my wife and we started fooling around she was a virgin. I was concerned at hurting her because my last girlfriend was a virgin also and it took her 2 weeks to be able to accommodate me. BTW I was only 6x5. When me and my wife finally had sex I was going slow and asking if there is any pain but there was none. And after I was in I realized there was a lot more room than I could fill. That was kinda depressing. But over time her vagina somehow shrank. Before I started PE there were times I would hit bottom with my tiny little dink. So I know that since she was deeper she will be able to go back to that as I grow. That is also how she feels as well. In fact she has brought up that it is going to take her a little bit to get used to the bigger little me. She has had more trouble getting used to the girth gains than anything.

I think that some women are just deeper than others like some guys are longer than others. In fact I think that if my wife were a guy she’d be swing’in 9 inches.

Thanks for the input - I was kind of wondering about the depth thing. I’m hoping that my wife will adapt at the same rate that my dick gets longer. The only thing that worries me is that her favorite toy only goes in about 7 inches and then stops without much give.

I honestly would not worry about this - forget the toy example. I bet that almost any woman could, with some work, take 7.5 - 8 to the hilt, and love it. Some women can even swallow 9-10” with their twat. When I was 6.5”, my wife used to say, “Don’t go in all the way.”

Last year, with an uncemented 7.6+, I was slamming her to the hilt, hitting the CDS and driving her to an insane orgasm. I was giving her all I had; I’ll bet she couldn’t definitely taken 8” (if I would’ve had it to give). And my wife was never “loose” or “deep” - especially like some women.

That ol’ pussy can stretch and take in a lot, don’t kid yourselves fellas.

wadzilla, right on you are… I think.

More than an observation it’s a physical reality that a certain length intervall (individual for women, of course - and different from time to time) only gets to pound the cervix*. Below that intervall, it doesn’t reach the cervix, and over the intervall it goes past it into the cds. Someone, I think it was luvdadus, said rubbing the cervix is fine, but not pounding it. My bet is that app 8”-9” is when you’re most likely to go past the cervix but not be too hard on the cds. Some can indeed take 10” and more, but the average vagina would have some adaption to do until comfortable with 9”+ pushing the cds. Lengths around 6.5”-7.5” seem most likely to pound the cervix in the less than fully aroused average woman.

*) When the cervix isn't fully retracted due to excitement.

Hmmm - maybe I should update my goal to 9 X 5.75.

But this brings up another interesting question. Why can’t I get her dildo to enter the CDS? I’ve tried numerous times, going for either the anterior or posterior, but have never gotten close. I’m guessing that the latex dildo is too flexible to guide it to the correct spot.

Any thoughts?

You said there’s not much give when it’s stopped at 7”; this would suggest it’s pushing against the cervix, which would appear to be is in it’s normal relaxed (not aroused) state and blocking the passage.

Are you sure she was craving penetration when you’ve done her with the dildo? See if you can use the dildo when she’s really asking for it, if this hasn’t been the case. Maybe she just wants you, and prefers to use the toys in solitude?