what motivated you?

Obsessive compulsive disorder - okay it was joke. ….. maybe.

But you know what else is a joke? All the “I do it for me BS”.
Gee, then what? You going to play golf with it?

You want a bigger dick for “YOU” so that “YOU” can stick more dick in “HER”.
Be it your S.O, your wife, or your boyfriends mouth !

AND SO DO I.

Lets get real here. The last 3 comments I heard were:

“WOW” that feels chubbed.
“If it goes in any more it’s going to be in the back of my throat” (said between gasps during intercourse).
“O’yea! that’s a fucking big dick”, WOW, go slow I’m tight”.

But I do it for me? Yea right. I do it for comments like those.
I do it to please my wife? So do I. Because pleasing her into making comments like those, rocks my world.
Even if its only temporary, at that moment I get to be “da man!”
King of my fucking world.

And you know what else? Most chicks DO prefer bigger dicks. Period.
Sure they’ll fuck a little dick, even enjoy it greatly. Even fall in love and marry the guy attached to it.
Same way you’d fuck her, even if she didn’t measure up to your fantasy of ideal beauty.
And I bet you’d still find it in you to blow your nut too.

Give her the big bone and somehow you get to be just that much more of a “man” for some reason.
Yea I know it’s fucked up, but that’s just the way it is.
Doesn’t mean they’re all on a quest for the biggest dick they can find,
but the ones that HAVE had a big dick will tell you;
“now that WAS an experience”.

SO lets get honest here. We all do it for one word: POWER, in one form or the other.
Because in some ass backwards way, having a big dick is suppose to equate to power.
The same reason you go to work and try to get paid more than the next asshole. POWER.
Except I think money is going to get you more of the “POWER” and faster than a big dick will.
Most people can smell money more than they can smell a big dick, long before you whip either out.

The real reason I PE?
I just want more meat at the dinner table during Christmas, Thanksgiving, and Easter.

So you’re the answer man you think you know everyone what’s on their mind and what they really want hey man since you’re the answer man tell me what the next lottery numbers are so I can have more money because me wanting more has been with me since I was a kid.

You mentioned you wanted to hear comments like hey you’re too big,etc but tell me something you wanted to hear those comments because that’s what YOU wanted to hear?

I do this for ME whether you believe that or not doesn’t bother me a bit.I’ll still go the bed the same way I always do without a care what people may think.If a girl isn’t happy with my current size then fuck her next woman please.Hey we won’t lie most guys want bigger dicks like most women want bigger breasts but you’ll find out that a lot of those people do it for themselves maybe to boost their egos so what there isn’t anything wrong with boosting your own ego but hey I’m still doing it for me not for you,your wife,your girlfriend,my girlfriend or the 18 year old virgin with big tits that lives down the street from you I’m doing for yours truly and again if you don’t believe me then so be it I won’t lose sleep over it.

Yeah I’ve often wondered about the “I do it for me” thing, too :)

See this thread: “I PE for myself” - Huh?

OK I lied I’m really doing it because I’m stuck on a uninhabited island with 7 castaways and Ginger from what I heard is a size queen.Guess Gilligan is hung like a blue whale dammit :D

Stupid girlfriend comment.

Never felt inadequate, was in fact average.

Started PE.

Feel better now :)

Answer man checking in here. It’s unfortunate people can’t handle the truth, and you my friend talk out both sides of your mouth in the same sentence. You left yourself wide open with the “wanting more since I was a kid” comment. Tell us how has that driven you? and at what expense.
Do you even possess the faculties to honesty assess it and give us an accurate answer? Do you have the capacity to be rigorously honest with yourself?

I know my own passions, obsessions, and compulsions. I’m also willing to admit them to myself today, because moving them into the realm of “healthy” is one of my current goals. If I don’t, then they’re more of a liability to me than anything else. They’ll end up costing my greatly over the long run. We’re all trick bags my friend, and prisoners to our thought processes. Unfortunately most of don’t figure that one out either. It’s interesting that I had this very conversation last night with a 50 something year old woman.

It’s not the comments. It’s the feelings those comments invoke within me, and what those feelings fuel. It’s about the narcissism.

Damn straight we’re all “doing it for ourselves”. That way all our insecurities will leave us and we can walk around with a big fat cock thinking I’m the man, Johnny fucking Holmes himself. All that and a bag of chips too? I don’t by it. Personally I don’t have time to think about my sick that much through out the day. I thinks it’s more because you get to feel that way when you get to slip it in. There’s no fuel for the ego until you do slip it in.

So I’ve distilled it down to one word: Power.

I sort of agree with RootCap.

You can say “it’s just for me, and no one else” and that would still be consistent with wanting it because you don’t feel completely adequate or because you think that you’ll be able to better please the women in your life with the added length/girth. If you can better please women then it makes you feel better about yourself, so you are still doing it for yourself. Penis size matters to guys so much, because guys intuitively know that it matters to women.

Women want bigger tits because they crave positive male attention and when they get it it makes them feel better about themselves. Guys want that kind of approval/positive reaction from females. It’s pretty simple, really.

And I’m guessing that there’s many on these boards who’ve had unfortunate experiences in their past where women have made comments, embarrassed, or humiliated them and they’ve been unable to get past it. And let’s not forget the media which always drives home this “bigger is better” message in movies/tv programs/advertisements/talk shows/etc.. Society in general promotes this idea that bigger is better and that being small is the equivalent to being an embarrasment. These messages create a subliminal anxiety accross many males.

I think we’re all just a product of our environment.

Hmm. Why indeed do I do PE? I’ve never considered myself particularly small, and have never received any comment of that sort. All partners have been satisfied, or well, at least not claimed otherwise. So why?

Could it just have been pure curiosity? I remember coming across some site about natural exercises, and then finding my way here. I lurked for a while and then just.started. I remember thinking, “I’ll give it a year just to see if it works”. It does, as far as I can tell after six months, so basically I could stop now. But I don’t think I will. Why not?

Duh. I want a bigger dick. It hasn’t got so much to do with power or insecurity for me I think, it’s more the physical appearance. I’m an athlete. Runner with a slim build, well toned, you get the idea. I want the “package “to complete the package, so to speak. So the answer would then be vanity, first and foremost. The whole “pleasing women” aspect comes in a strong second.

Interesting, I think you might be right.

Because when we’re kids, the size of our dicks wasn’t really a problem, because it didn’t really dictate who had the power in the group. The one with the coolest toy did.

But nowadays, the ones with the power are WOMEN.

Think about it, word has spread that a bigger dick is alot more pleasurable than a smaller dick. Even though most women will hide this fact by saying stuff like ” it’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean “.

This really can’t be proven ( without pe ), because to find the true answer to that question, they’d have to have the same man, with the same sexual skills, with 2 different sized dicks.

Anyway, this new found power that women have, has been used mostly to put alot of men down and even make fun of them.

So wichever way you look at it, a bigger penis might be the solution that alot of men think they need to regain that power. Obviously they don’t literally think this, they cover it up by making other reasons like ” I want more confidence “. What is confidence? It’s POWER! The power to not be affected by what would knock a normal man down.

Keep the conversation going, it’s getting interesting.

Err… let me get back to you on that one…

Power!

Once I found I could how could I not

I’m 18. I am a man of layered insecurities.. About never being just right because theres all these things wrong with me.

It sucks.

I have all these things that I worry about.

I started with a dick a little over 6.5”, it’s a nice size. At my age of 16-17 I figured I was above average and that was Very good. That means that I would have probably a bigger dick to the woman I am with than her last bf.

When I found out I could really effectively make my dick bigger I jumped on it. I got to about 7” and stopped. For some reason it wasn’t that big a deal for me because I knew it would please any woman, logically.

I finally got really into it when I wanted that woman to be so attached to me sexually that she can’t leave me.
That’s rooted to power. I wanted people to spread the fact that man he has a big dick. I wanted to not have to have a real inert insecurity when penis size jokingly comes up and I say o’ yeah I’m 8 inches. I want to say it and be able to drop my pants to it.

Insecurities could eat many of us alive.
I won’t even get into what they are.

I still haven’t gotten further than making out with ~ 7 women. EVERY ONE of them I could have gone further with had I initiated it.. That’s my disease. All of them were hot, and I’d still do any of em.

Maybe if my dick is big enough. All my other insecurities will balance lower. That is the beauty of every inch.
WOMEN MAY OFTEN VIEW YOUR Potential, OR ATTRACTIVENESS, OR ABILITY TO GET WITH ANY CHICKS AND YOUR TRUE MANHOOD ON THE SIZE OF YOUR DICK.
A man that swings a 9 inch flacid in front of a chick and smiles will get some thoughts later..
“Wow.. He must get a ton of chicks”
“He could get with anyone with that thing”
“They must all be after him”
“I better stay with that”

Also , and this is important, it´s like a secret that you have, that keeps your self-esteem up there. It´s like a rich guy spending a couple days as a poor guy for a TV show: he knows the truth, that no matter what he´s got that cash at home. He just isn´t concerned.

It´s the same with hiding a 9” trumph in your pants. You know it, and they can see it. They know it. It´s just that. I get that from my cock which is now 7.6, when I get to the 8.5 I want, everyone in the room will be able to tell “my God that guy must have a huge cock” just from seeing me smile

Vagabond- you said it very well. I think a lot of people who have big dicks feel that way and I know exactly what you’re talkin about :) .