What is your main motivation for PE?

I’d say for me it’s both. For myself to have a massive cock and to tear some tight pussy to pieces!

I have noticed the same thing :)

Women that tell you “your size is fine” or “size doesn’t matter” absolutely shoot me throw the heart.

I don’t want to be told “my size is FINE.” FINE? Who on this planet wants to be “fine”? “Hey, honey, you’re just fine for me!”

How exciting! Thanks babe! I’m run-of-the-mill Joe!

Sorry, but I’m here because I want to be as hbgreek put it: BIG-DICK JOE. He’s the guy that every girl will remember even if they don’t end up with him. And for the record, the main reason they don’t end up with him is probably because Bid-Dick Joe is off having threesomes or tagging models or that older lady from the grocery store. Big-dick Joe doesn’t bother trying to maintain a relationship because he’s off creating legends in the neighborhood with his massive warhammer!

Yes, it’s true. We are all self-indulgent egotistical maniacs for being here. But we are all geniuses for doing it because at least all of US are honest with ourselves. I guess I should be content with my size. I’m not exactly small. But if we can become supermen, then let’s all do it! This site is a godsend! Praise be given to Thundersplace.org!

It is bizarre but I imagine myself actually feeling great about being sexually rejected after a girl’s eyes pop out of her head as she says, “Oh My GOD! Your dick is fucking HUUUUUGE! I’m sorry, but I can’t take that big of a dick.”

Somehow I think I would prefer that than my girlfriend telling me, “baby, you’re fine!”

Give me a break. And I’m starting with a BPEL 7.6 x EG 5.25. And the ONLY way I can be sure that it’s big is if she puts her hand up to my stomach to involuntarily warn me to not go too deep on her. That does happen in certain positions (with her on her back and her legs pushed back by her ears.) And holy crap, does that turn me on! Otherwise I’m not even sure if I have a decent-sized dick.

She has even said, “you’re pretty well hung” and “look at your big dick” and “that is a nice cut of meat.” But can any phrasing really compete with her body response? I don’t give a crap what she says. I will always be watching for congruency in her body response. I want her pussy spraying me with multiple orgasms and her eyes popping out of her head and tears streaming and limbs shaking.

I will say to one of the guys that seemed to feel bad about his unit. My girlfriend and I have a dildo that I use on her ass occasionally. It’s 6 x 4.5. But yesterday, I used it on her pussy and she came HARD. So I wouldn’t worry about yourself. I almost got jealous myself!

But here’s the other thing, we went to the sex shop last week. I told her to point out the dildo that she likes. She seemed REAL tentative as she said, “are you sure you really want to know?” I convinced her that all was cool. Then she points to a tool that had to be 9 x 6. Holy Crap! I’m 7.5 x 5.25! I gotta PE on the double! Needless to say, we did not buy it.

Another comment mentioned early in this thread: My girl has said that my full bush of wet pubic hair smacking against her clit is one of the primary ways she orgasms. This cannot be overlooked. Maybe someone will say that I’m not dicking her properly? Whatever. I just want Joe’s legendary Warhammer.

Be it in the lockerroom or our girl’s responsiveness or just looking at it ourselves: all men want to feel like God. We all want to feel powerful, confident and sought-after.

I want the Heavenly Cock of God Himself lurking behind my zipper.

Cock of God or God of Cock?

Hmmmm… Just wanted to throw something in here…

I’ve recently noticed that game and rock solid self esteem often kick the big dick to the curb. Girls are much more attracted to social status than necessarily size, all though they definitely respond very much to that as well. But think about it. If you’re in a club and you have a douche with a giant cock and a charming, confident funny guy with a normal dick… And she knows about this, who would she rather go home with? I would venture the confident guy. And especially if he knows that he is smaller and still doesn’t care. That sort of thing is VERY attractive to women. Then you might say that having a big dick gives you greater confidence. Which is probably true if you’ve grown up with it. But it’s a chicken in the egg thing.

So I guess women would like to have it both ways. Of course. So when choosing a dildo, they might pick the biggest one in the store. But the dildo doesn’t have a personality that she has to be attracted to… I mean would you like an airhead bimbo with great big boobs, or a charming funny girl with normal boobs? If they’re both as cute, I think the answer is pretty easy, at least to me.

I’m 8.3x6.3 right now. And I don’t have any problem bottoming out with 90% of the girls i date. And the cases when I haven’t been the biggest are few and far between. I think size perception with women is really skewed, but that’s been covered again and again. Not one girl has pegged me under 9”. Just saying…

Still my goal is 10x7. And that’s purely to make an already good situation better. But I’m taking it very slow. I don’t need to rush towards that goal. I just wanted to remind some of the guys who get insecure that it really isn’t that black and white. Is she going to remember mr. hammerhead? Yeah, sure. Don’t you remember the biggest boobs you’ve ever seen? But let me ask you this: which do you think about more often? The girl that you were the most fond of and had the biggest crush on, or the one with the rack? Just food for thought…

I cosign on sitrusen*—

In all seriousness- my motivation hasn’t really changed since the first time I saw an incarnation of this thread shortly after finding TP— I want to be that cock that she whispers to her granddaughter about when she’s losing her shit in the nursing home- I want to be the monster fuck of her life- and while that doesn’t require being the absolute largest cock invading her body, it does need some exceptional size— thus my meta of 9*7.

*Man’s been here 5 years and this is his second post!

Sitrusen,

You make a good point with all these other elements of relationships that are not purely sexual. I was just referring to the purely sexual stuff. Like androNYC says is: I want to be THE monster fuck of her life.

It’s all sexual here, isn’t it?

Otherwise, yes, I agree: having tight game and being able to navigate the ladies to your bedroom is the first step.

I was just talking about step two: hardcore, monster fucking.

BTW, I present you with a mega high five for possessing the dreaded +8x6’er. If I reach that, I swear I will be content and quit PE promptly.

Honestly, it’s the fact that I have feelings for my gf that I have even sauntered into this PE world. Before, I just focused on gaming girls and laying them. Now that I’ve got vested feelings and have started to care about what SHE thinks, I am craving the ability to be that monster lifetime fuck.

But prior to this, I was like what one comic said in a bit:

“How do you know if a girl has an orgasm?”

“WHO CARES?”

Id like to respond to vagabund and sitrusen. Sitrusen couldn’t be more right. We all know the guy in the bar with a huge air of confidence/ego. He talks loud, picks on his friends, the sees a girl and tries to act nice. I know I’ve thought “asshole. Prob has a big dick, but what a douche.” Girls try him out, the dumb girls with no personality will date him, but girls with real personality see through him, or get sick of his cockiness. Vagabund, I started with about a 5.8x 4.? I never did the girth, but I know it isn’t great. I had a reputation though with a group of friends anyway. One told her friends “demon in the sack”. I’m not giving the cliche about “not the size of the hammer it’s the nail” blah blah. Plenty of girls like a bigger dick, but by being passionate, adventuresome, orally fixated, and paying attention to getting HER off, I had my own reputation. Vagabund is right, why be normal when we have the ability to be better? But girls won’t stay with big dick Joe for long, esp. If big dick Joe hopes that just hack hammering away will get every girl off. Cheers to you both.

VAGABUND:

Yeah… I can agree with that. The purely sexual stuff, namely the icing on the cake. It’s great to be able to be the big dick Joe, but still… Even sexually there are multiple levels to please a woman. Like TheContinental said, if you have skills in bed, you don’t really need to have a timberlog between your legs. Squirting, for instance, is easier with a shorter, fatter dick. Or just with your fingers. And if you’ve ever seen a woman squirt, that’s just wild, man. It’s way more intense than when they’re just being rammed with a big dick. They are of course, different experiences, and I guess if you asked a woman, she wouldn’t like to compare the two. They’re just a bit more emotionally more complex than us, I guess. :)

Personally, I like to be able to hit all the spots for practical reasons. Some girls get vaginal orgasms from hitting the cervix. Not that many, though. The only girl I had to struggle to bottom out with was a girl who was 5’10. And she was also pretty wide. Actually, when it comes to girth, it’s rarely a problem. I think 7” girth is only a disadvantage if you want good blowjobs or, of course anal. But now I’m rambling…

Sitrusen and TheContinental,

Okay, I think I need you guys to give me some pointers on technically laying a girl well. Now I’m starting to think that I just don’t know how to do it right. Albeit, my girl orgasms every time we have sex. But a good 20% of the time it’s while she’s playing with her clit while I’m slicing away at her.

I will have to agree with you, Sitrusen, about the female emotional complexity: my girl can get off just by the fact that I’m being really brutal with her. She is that kind of girl. She actually orgasms just by me forcing her to lick my ass! (Yeah, THAT kind of girl.)

But I’m starting to think that maybe my dick-sliding-into-vagina skills need honing. I read a thread about CDS orgasm the other day and tried it on my girl last night. I had her legs back to her shoulders and was trying to bury it deep with short, rhythmic stabs. I don’t know if I’m long enough to give her that kind of orgasm. She seemed to be looking at me lovingly, but nothing intense was going on in that face. I’m BPEL 7.5 but she’s 5’10” and has curvaceous hips. She does say “ouch” every now and then. Does that mean I’m bottoming out? I definitely don’t feel my dick hitting anything. Maybe I just don’t have the sensitivity to notice while I’m in the heat of sex. Is that me hitting the cervix?

She did say once, “I don’t think I could take much longer, but I could take thicker.”

Talk about a shot to my fragile male EGO!

Thank god for Thunders. I want to surprise her next year with a 6.5” girther. I’m only at 5.25 EG now. I have a ways to go and I have just started. Maybe 6” girth would be enough to shut her up. Maybe that’s not an issue for her. Maybe she thinks it’s already thick enough. Maybe I’m just obsessed with the size of my cock!

Either way, feel free to share you sex tactics with me. I want to give her a shooting orgasm.

Teach me that one!

End of ramble

I can honestly say it’s this simple: if I Can have a bigger dick, I will have myself one. It’s impressive in every light whether it’s natural trait or acquired during the lifetime to have. I’d rather have a big fat dick, even by porn standards, so fucking any of these chicks I want comes naturally.

Starting: 7.5” BPEL,5.5” EG/ April 2008: 8.0” BPEL, 5.8” EG Shortterm goal: 8.5” EL/ 6” EG
Longterm goal: 11.5” BPEL/ 7.5” EG

We should start a new thread in the LLF forum for this I think. Sex tactics and advice. Although if you use my tricks on an ex of mine, I kill you. :)

To fill a vagina more completely.

To have a higher value on the swingers or polyamory market.

To feel more confident.

To offset other physical imperfections that I have.

To rule a woman’s cul de sac (with caution) and try to give deep spot orgasms.

To be thick enough to put pressure on all the right spots, the G spot, the AFE spot, stretching the opening, and touging the libia minor over the clit.

To appreciate the appearance of my cock and actually like it, as oposed to despising it.

SEX…domination in bed etc. I want to see girls faces when I put there my big(not yet :) ) penis. I do not care at all about flaccid and lockers.

Holy crap you have a huge goal ahead, and you’re big to start! When you reach your goal there better be pics up. Jesus that is going to be nuts. You have to date a girl who is 7 feet tall.