I’ve been on this board, mostly lurking, occasionally contributing for the last couple of years. I’ve been doing some kind of PE for that time. My gains have been decent: I started around 7.25BP x 5.25 and am now easily above 7.75BP-almost 8”-(and over 8 1/8 flaccid stretch) x 6 midshaft. In a cockring I’m over 8x6.
Anyway, I have been seperated from my wife for almost 8 months (not my choice). I’ve been with her since we were teens and my experience with other women before her was fairly limited. Anyway, I met a woman over the internet and we had a nice date—my first first date in almost fifteen years. Things went pretty well and we ended up back at my place.
It’s funny, but all the obsessing with my PE didn’t get me much response from my wife—sex was always good, but she never noticed much difference. And without much to compare to, she never really thought I was unusually large, even though occasionally we had to be careful during sex. We both figured she was small (she actually is—I miss that, too).
Well, kissing led to petting, and that led to her undoing my pants. I got the reaction we all dream about—“Wow” and an eager smile. She started giving me oral sex and made a comment about not being able to get it all into her mouth. I was pretty happy about it. But it gets better.
This led to getting her out of her clothes, then eventually, sex. She gave me a, “Oh my God” when I slid into her, and we went on for a while in basic missionary. But she kept stopping me for GOING TOO DEEP! I wasn’t even thrusting very hard, her legs were down, etc; she was all confused about it being uncomfortable. She said it never felt like that, and it felt like I was going too deep. I acted all concerned (trying not to crack the huge grin I was feeling under the surface) and changed to less penetrating positions, but I still had to be careful.
Then she said, “It’s weird how uncomfortable it is because I’ve always fantasized about fucking a man with a big cock.” Then she told me she’d just have to get used to it.
I’m still kind of in shock. I want to run out and show it off, use it on every unsuspecting woman out there. I know there are a range of experiences that women have, and every one of them have a different perspective about waht is big (and too big), but this was a 40 year old woman who has been single for a while (and apparently wasn’t faithful during her marriages) so it feels like she has some basis of comparison.
Anyway, I wanted to share my success story, thank everybody here and encourage everybody to keep at it!