touchy subject - can't satisfy my woman
I’m going to spill a little here because of the guise of anonymity. My fiancée and I have been having sex for almost 6 months now. Over 100 sessions, and not a single time has she been able to reach orgasm. Of course she says that she is very happy with the sex, and although there is no climax, she is fully satisfied.
But being a guy I just can’t live with that. My ex-wife was able to get off almost everytime with me (and I know she didn’t lie to me, because we were very honest about it just like my fiancée and I).
Now at first I thought it might be she was one of those women who can’t achieve orgasm through penetration. But she said she was able to just fine with other guys.
Now 2 things to note. First of all is that she is on medication which “has sexual side affects”. So this might explain it. She says she very often comes to a “peak” and then just doesn’t go beyond it into climax. But I can understand how this might be like this for a week or even a month, but not 6 months. As well, she has switched medicines, and the new one didn’t change anything either. Has any women been on medicine that would prevent something like this for long periods of time?
The 2nd thing to note is that all her previous guys have been quite a bit larger than me. Whereas i’m 6”, they have been around 8” (other than her first which is different). Again, their girth was also larger than mine. And this is what really makes me very insecure here, is I have this belief that the reason she can’t is because I am too small for her. I have tried different positions propping her up on a pillow, toys, etc.. I have tried long and slow sex, I have tried fast and wild sex, and variations.. and nothing.
So my question to women out there (and guys who actually have had very open and honest relationships about this with their girls) is a) has anybody experienced a problem like this with medicine before, and b) have woman who have been with larger guys previously, have they been able to be satisfied with a smaller guy.
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