Today, she said, "Stop"
I did not think it would happen this early, but today we threw down in the bedroom, and after much wrestling, she said, “You need to stop making your dick bigger.” I asked, “Why?” She answered, “Because it hurts when you put it all the way in.”
I have not taken a solid erect measurement in a while, but I had taken several flaccid stretched measurements and noticed a substantial increase. In the past this has always translated into erect gains as well. Sometime ago I began hitting and pushing past her cervix. No complaints there. I suppose now I am going even deeper. During the last week or so of sex I’ve noticed a tighter feel. Actually, it feels more like there is a lack of lube, but she is actually lubed as much as usual. I figure the increased girth is causing more friction. But she has not complained about the girth.
So, my question is this: If I stop all length work will she, over time, adjust to the length, and then I can start back up? Is it possible for the woman to adjust in this way?
Now don’t take any of this wrong. Sex is better than ever for both of us. She speaks of it often and initializes the action more than ever before PE. The problem is that she loves for our pubic bones to bump and grind. So do I. Hence, if my length is now at the maximum that she can handle while bone to bone, then I do not want to go any further with length … UNLESS she is able to adjust to the size over time.
As a side note I might add that she is in the middle of the 28 day cycle and I understand this is when a woman’s vagina is at its smallest. This may have been one reason for her comment.
I await the wisdom and experience of others. I don’t want to ruin a good thing - our sex life, that is - NOT even for a bigger tool.
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