This is a true story guys, nightmare...

This has always been a pressing issue in my mind…how to keep your PE activities private, and how to deal with the prospect of friends and family discovering it. I’ve been wanting to pose the question on this forum, but did not want to spoil everybody’s party.

Do most of us really consider the impact of our private activities on our personal life if or when it was to become known by our valued social structure? How many would persist in PE after seriously considering the possibility of being discovered? Would you buy the pumps and Fleshlites? I’ve been a pumper for about 7 years and have put that somewhat behind me, but lately considered getting a Fleshlite for training purposes.
The first thought that comes to mind is, what if someone sees this in my apartment, friend or family. Even if I keep it well hidden, what if I am in an accident or incapacitated and family has to move shit in my apartment? What if I die and family has to go through all of my property. Do I care now what they might think?

I live alone and leave my PE crap laying out in the bathroom for easy access. I know my landlord has entered my apartment many times to perform maintainance, and I may have left things out. They’ve probably seen it and thought, “what kind of pervert lives here?”.
Before I started pumping I had a magazine lying around in the apt. promoting pumping with a picture of a guy pumping. A friend came in and noticed it and said sarcastically, “that stuff really works you know?” I should have piped-in like, “Oh really, you mean you do it?”. Maybe he did, I don’t know. What the fuck do I care?.

I’ve always thought that people that make an issue of this type of stuff in public have issues of their own. Its like the bully in school. Most people with stable personalities have better things to do than make fun of other people in public.

Anyway, I went ahead and ordered the Fleshlite. I’m not comfortable having it in my apartment, because it does carry a high pervert factor with it, but I have a good excuse. Hey, its for self-improvement. Nobody can argue that its a good thing for a man to be able to perform like a stallion, but try convincing anyone thats all it is for.
I’m sure my moment is coming.

When I was starting my “real” PE with the knowledge I got from Thunder`s Place I almost instantly told my wife what was going on. I toughed I would get caught anyway, so it would be easier to tell her right from the start…

Sometimes when I wake up and have a really big hard erection I show her and ask if she thinks it looks bigger today ;)

Well you have to admit it is not exactly a mainstream activity. For most people, they will think that either you have a small willie, or you have issues about having a small willie. 99.9% of people are just not taking the time to do anything about it (although maybe I am wrong, someone is supporting all those pay sites!), so they think anyone who does must be odd. They think this stuff does not work so anyone who is resorting to it must be desparate.

Hey, look at most people’s reactions to seeing a vibrator laying around. A few months ago my wife walked into a friend’s bedroom and there was a vibrator laying on the bedside table. They both got all embarassed about it, even though they both own several and have talked about them at length. Just seeing it together was enough to turn them purple. I joked to my wife that the other woman was trying to pick her up, but she was not convinced. Oh well, another teenage fantasy shot down.

I have the luxury (in this situation) of living away from home 50% of the time, and I keep all my PE gear at work. I am hopeful that one day soon, my lovely wife will comment on a size increase, at which point I plan on fessing up the whole thing to her. I figure the proof is in the pudding. If it is enough for her to notice, I am not ashamed to be doing it. I am curious as to her reaction.

About four months ago, another student saw that I had a PE forum up on my computer screen, but nothing, that I know of, ever came of it. If anyone ever asked me about PE, I’d just be straight with them: a bigger, healthier penis is something worth working for. If they still thought that it was odd/funny/perverse for me to make my dick bigger, well then I’d say: fuck ‘em.

“What do you care what other people think?”
-Richard Feynman

If we didn’t care what people think. We would all be walking around in piss stained underwear, farting on each other like Grandpa does.

There is a healthy amount we all should have. Don’t be overly worried about what people think. But it is still a sign of good mental heath when you have at least some concern.

Pud,

Read the book, it will put the comment in context, and it is an entertaining biography. Refraining from morbid fear of the judgement of others is not the same thing as lacking respect for basic social conventions. I am not a nihilist. I would not walk around “in piss stained underwear, farting on each other” out of simple self respect and respect for other people. However, I do not condemn what anyone does as along as it does not violate any laws.

If a guy told me that he liked to wear womens clothing, I would not condemn him for it. Whatever floats your boat. But, if a guy told me that he liked to have sex with little girls, then I would drag his ass to the police station myself.

Do you see my point? I do not walk through life worrying about what other people think about me. Nor do I condemn those whose interests are different from mine.

Peace

Great post partners. My wife help me with the Jelqs. Its nice cheer with her PE.Very sensual too.

1. I wouldn’t have had that situation, as I wouldn’t have been carrying my penis pump around in my bag.

2. I’d be over it, because I only speak to one or two guys I went to college with.

3. I’d be over it, because it was 15 years ago and these apparently weren’t guys you were friends with.

4. I’d worry more about my ability to satisfy my current squeeze, rather than what a couple of guys I wasn’t screwing thought about my dick 15 years ago.

5. Now that you are an inch or so above average, you could always go to a reunion, excuse yourself to the bathroom, stroke it up and pop back out with your dick sticking out to end all that.

Seriously, guy, this post is pathetic. If you are struggling that much with something that insignificant that happened that long ago, get therapy. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you haven’t described a real problem. You should be old enough by now to know that life gets a lot worse than that.

Take it easy man.
I don`t know if you read this thread Crap I got made fun of at work today!
I just answered this monkey guy who has a problem, so i toughed i share my experience.

Why is my post pathetic??? You are pathetic. This is a forum where people share their stories.

I am not struggling with anything like this ;) I`m just sharing a story.
Calm down really

Let’s move on gentlemen.

Why the shit slinging? Calm the hell down everybody… before secjay greases up his power knuckles!

It seems that people are always drawn to things you don’t want them to know about. The cops always find that super especially secret hidden stash of illegal possessions that you were 5 minutes ago so confident nobody could ever find out about…. and I’ll be damned if I have found the perfect hiding place for my cylinder although it’s hardly to be unexpected given the damn thing is well over a foot long! :D

I have a story of my own to share - I went on holidays and took my pump, condoms, lube, cockring with me. I came home and dumped my suitcase in my room, because I was tired I planned to unpack later on…. when I did eventually go to unpack, the suitcase was half open with stuff hanging out - including my friggin’ pump cylinder!!! I assume my mother had gone to “unpack for me” (She suffers from Chronic Meddlers Disorder) and when the gear flopped out, she must have flown into a panic and fled the scene without realising I would know she’d been through my stuff without her putting things back, LOL. She would not make a good criminal.

http://www2.b3t … rackmyknuckles/ :)

Your story is just so typical. Why do those things happen?

Northpole - a little known fact: I can crack each individual joint in my hands seperately ;) (That’s 15 cracks per hand not including my ‘bag-o-marbles’ wrists)

My mum never looks at me the same after these little revelations. First, it was the skimpy boxer short (pyjamas) I used to wear aroudn the house… then it was the overly audible sex with my lovely girlfriend… now this!

Wow man. That sounds more like high school than college. There are about 12,000 students at my school and most of them are loners, my school has a lot of commuters and people who work full time so this could just never happen to me at college. Worst case scenario would be my group of friends finding out but they wouldn’t be too cruel about it. If I were you I probably would have transfered schools, lol.

That is terrible, I hate it when people do that, gives me the creeps.
When I was younger I did also do it though. :)