There might not be the ideal penis size but 8”X6” dildo is the best seller for sure. I guess most women prefer 8 by 6.
Where do guys come up with this? Do you have any links that support this claim? If you browse around Internet sex shops catering to women, true 8x6-insertable dildos are pretty damn rare and are often accompanied by warnings that they are REALLY huge (to prevent customers from “biting off more than they can chew” and regretting their purchase).
Gamelink has a big gay section, and that or some other distortion of the market may account for such large sizes being listed under best sellers.
Check out the bestsellers at a woman-oriented site, Vixen Creations, “the world’s premiere manufacturer of silicone dildos”[…]the large sizes are at the bottom of the list, and the average bestseller seems to run a very “average” size a bit over 6” long and not too large in diameter.
Also, at Good Vibrations, a pioneering progressive “sex positive” company catering mostly to women, when talking about the toys they have custom-manufactured to suit their needs they refer to “ideal dimensions (6 1/2 long, 1 1/2 in diameter)”
I caught an observational documentary where the subject stated that the best selling dildo in her friend’s sex shop was even smaller (they filmed in the shop and showed the dildo) — small enough in fact to just reach the anterior fornix. I’m not sure what that says about ideal penis-size/shape, but that was the most popular size (and it wasn’t too girthy either).
In my experience women cannot comfortably take nearly as much dildo as they can cock, perhaps because dildos are made of less compressible material.
That sounds to me like the reason might be psychological rather than physical.
Willis you have a big dick.
You will certainly be able to bottom out on many, many women.
You certainly have a large porn-sized cock. Will you win the Monsters Of Cock Award? Probably not. There are definitely guys who are bigger - not many, but they’re out there.
Dude— you have no idea how long I’ve been looking for this information. I’ve been worrying about getting too big and bottoming out for almost as long as I’ve been PE-ing. Please feel free to harp-in on any of my posts in future.
In truth 8” X 6” is a very large cock. It is not the ideal size that most women are after; it’s what we want.
That’s true— one of the main reasons for my PE is that having a big dick feels good and raises my self-esteem (it helps me ignore ego-displays & invitations to pissing contests also, since I don’t feel I need to prove myself). The thing is I don’t really ever fuck (it’ll be six years this January since I last had sex) so women aren’t really part of the equation. I mainly practice PE because I enjoy masturbation a lot more with a big dick. Ideally I’d like a 8nbp” to masturbate with but I’m afraid that if I ever do become sexually active again, or if I get a long-term partner (although that is unlikely) that I’ll be too big for them (if I had a ‘life-partner’ so-to-speak I’d tailor my PE to suite her ideal requirements, but since I’m a long-term singleton I’m tempted to just keep growing the thing, but having said that I’m really not sure what to do, plus it seems I’m going to gain at least a little length from my girth work.)
Previously known as Mr. Fantastic