The Legendary 8x6

I caught an observational documentary where the subject stated that the best selling dildo in her friend’s sex shop was even smaller (they filmed in the shop and showed the dildo) — small enough in fact to just reach the anterior fornix. I’m not sure what that says about ideal penis-size/shape, but that was the most popular size (and it wasn’t too girthy either).

That sounds to me like the reason might be psychological rather than physical.

Dude— you have no idea how long I’ve been looking for this information. I’ve been worrying about getting too big and bottoming out for almost as long as I’ve been PE-ing. Please feel free to harp-in on any of my posts in future.

That’s true— one of the main reasons for my PE is that having a big dick feels good and raises my self-esteem (it helps me ignore ego-displays & invitations to pissing contests also, since I don’t feel I need to prove myself). The thing is I don’t really ever fuck (it’ll be six years this January since I last had sex) so women aren’t really part of the equation. I mainly practice PE because I enjoy masturbation a lot more with a big dick. Ideally I’d like a 8nbp” to masturbate with but I’m afraid that if I ever do become sexually active again, or if I get a long-term partner (although that is unlikely) that I’ll be too big for them (if I had a ‘life-partner’ so-to-speak I’d tailor my PE to suite her ideal requirements, but since I’m a long-term singleton I’m tempted to just keep growing the thing, but having said that I’m really not sure what to do, plus it seems I’m going to gain at least a little length from my girth work.)

Yeah, and have 20% of women reject you and make 20% more hurt..
But who cares as long as I’m the king of cocks.

Ahund

Damn, this will sound stupid but I really have to say that girth can make a dick look huge. After looking at some of the members pic that were 7x6.

My scepticisms about BP measurements have converted lately as i have increased my BP size but not so much my NBP size. At first I thought “well thats just useless”, thinking that I couldnt use it, when in fact I can, as the fat pad can be pushed back during sex.

Seeing members pics looking bigger than mine when I have longer measurements in length and not that far off in girth baffled me. Meaning that even a small increase in girth can make all the difference visually as well as volume-wise.
Something that you may have all realised a long time ago but has only just become blatently apparent in my head. My goals are for girth slightly more so than length now..

Yes we know.

As far as best selling dildo’s, I was surprised to see that ave Joe’s link did not quote any girth dimensions. I would think a woman in the market would be very interested in this, at least as much as length!

Can I ask your reason for not having sex for 6 years? If you don’t want to answer that’s totaly understandable. I ask because I have been trying to abstain for a little bit now for my own reasons. Long story short. I have a friend and I know we will be together one day just not yet, I left a wife because of her. She knows that I want no one but her but we can’t be together yet (that’s the long story) well I want to hold off so I can tell her that she is the only one I want which she is. Its just I’m not all that sucsessfull at not holding off. I’ve tried for about 6 months now and have still had sex with 2 different women and felt bad about it afterwards because even though she says it would be fine since were not together now I know inside she wouldn’t like it. So I’m just wondering how the hell you do it! Give me some motivation man. Again if its personal and you don’t want to share that’s totaly fine also. Thanks

This is an easy one. You just have sex with other women, but tell her that you are not.

Women like vibrators more than dildos. Remember gay men are a large customer base for phallic toys as well if not more so when it comes to dildos. Toy measurements are also exaggerated to include the scrotum or uninsertable base. The last time I looked at average dildo sizes sold at a female oriented site, it wasn’t at 8x6 either.

Great Siam. You are probably right because even some whores complain 7”X6” dick. My fault. But I have a big ego that drives me to reach 9”NBPEL.

At a size of about 7” NBPEL and 5,5” EG, I had sex with some 60 women over the years (different ages, no hookers) and I remember that with 3 I felt somehow “lost”, say the girls were a bit wide for me. But almost the half told me to go slowly regarding depth in special in the position with her having her legs over my shoulders (one of my favorites). And I am not rude.

So from this experience I say that I don´t want a much longer penis - I wouldn´t mind more girth up to 6” maximum though.

I also want to add that I doubt if 6” width would actually have been enough for the few wide ladies I learned to know and it was not that they were unhappy - I was.

To Thunder´s I came for information on mens health, penis enhancement/maintenance and I stayed for it is in my eyes one of the few places men can talk about their problems in a open way. And it is for sure one of the best moderated boards I ever encountered.

I’m with you. I just got to 8x6 myself. Was at 7.75x5.75 for a long time, just been jelqing casually the past few years. The last bit of progress is probably more from the edging with cockring than anything else. I also eat very healthy, taking fish oil, etc.

Anyway, I do think I need to stop. My wife already needs plenty of lube to handle the girth. Everytime feels like the first :-)

I’m over 6” girth and not far from 8” length. From my experience, even very tight/small women love a thick cock. If you don’t start thrusting like a jack hammer, 6+ is fantastic for most women. You just have to take your time. The sight and feeling of grasping a 6” dick gets the juices flowing and I have no doubt that any woman I’ve been with could have taken more, at least eventually. I’m unfortunate in this regard because my wife would like a lot more…LuvRocket: you’re a lucky guy.

8” seems like it could be a little long for some, but not all. Length is a function of use, too. I think if you are careful and deliberate you can use a lot of dick - and use it to your advantage. Banging it like a porn star right off the bat doesn’t usually work with this size, although I doubt it works at any size.

That cracked me up!!

Over a year ago, I started seeing an older woman who, shall we say, has some amount of experience. She has regaled me with stories of previous lovers anywhere from the 3 incher she refused to sleep with, to the guy she described as “8 inches long and quite a bit thicker than a coke can” (no kidding), right up to the 9 incher she was with right before me. (Yikes!) She described Coke can guy as “exciting” in a dangerous way, but admitted that she seldom came as she was too busy concentrating!

I am 6.5x5, and she tells me that she’s enjoying with me the best sex of her life. I know, I know, what else is she going to say to me, right? But I think it’s an insult to this woman’s intelligence to think she’s lying about this. After all, it has been a whole year plus that we’ve been together, and she’s more than able to get someone else—even back to Mr. 9 inches that she had before me.

We have had detailed discussions on this, and she likes me best because of the angle and hardness I have. When fully aroused, I have a slight upward banana curve, and I point almost directly at the ceiling. And it stays like that for a long, long time. When I put her on her back with her knees up on my shoulders, the intense scraping on her G-spot drives her insane. So I guess I kind of got lucky in that regard.

She told me she once had an 8x6 dildo. She used it as a special occasion sort of thing only. She says every now and then a big cock is “fun”. She likes the feeling of being “filled”. But she doesn’t want it every day.

Recently, walking the streets of a strange city, we bumped into a sex shop and went in to look around. With a little grin, she said it would be fun to have another dildo/vibrator as she hadn’t had one for so long. And the one she picked? Battery operated, multiple speeds, 6 inches long, 4 inches wide, ribbed from the middle to the tip, and, where the head would normally be, curved upward at a mild angle for extra g-spot stimulation. She wouldn’t even entertain the 8x6 stuff.

But again.what may have transpired without me in the store with her is open to debate. ;-)

I believe her (maybe because I want to).

GonaBeBig— I understand how complicated relationships can be— it sounds like yours is a doozie.

My reason for not having sex:

There’s no one reason— it’s a lot of things. I know this’ll probably sound like I’m joking or being ‘weird’ or something, but I’m not— the basic reason I don’t have sex is, I guess, that it’s just not worth the pain and effort involved: I’ve had bad experiences in the past with regards relationships both sexual and non-sexual so I try to keep myself to myself as much as possible. I don’t have a job and I spend most of my time at home and so keeping to myself and not talking to people has kind of become a habit for me. So I literally just don’t have the opportunity, because I’m never really in the right place at the right time and I don’t really meet people, or know people and I don’t have friends. I’ve met a few women in my day-to-day life (‘service professionals’) who’ve started off talking to me as a joke, making me talk to them, making fun of me (I think because I must be perceived as a kind of quiet, loner, weirdo-type person) but I treat them as I’d treat a friend and they usually end up liking me and wanting to go places with me, which I find difficult (I generally try and ‘short-circuit’ these relationships so that the whole ‘lets be friends’ thing doesn’t come up in the first place, but doing that can be very difficult sometimes (not to mention messy, emotionally-speaking).

I had a lot of problems when I was younger and it seemed to always badly distort my relationships and I guess it burnt me because it’s not really something I want to get into, even though the idea of having a female friend still appeals to me.

I used to feel lonely, but now that I’m accustomed to it it’s fine.

I do want to have sex again at least once before I’m too old to do it any more so I’m thinking about putting my details & a photo on an Internet sex-contacts site (It’s also a kind of quixotic dream/ambition of mine to move to California and work as an adult film actor, which is another reason for my practicing PE — that was the main reason when I started but my life has kind of changed a little since.)

As for advice on staying chased— I use NLP, my knowledge of human behaviour and psychology, autosuggestion, that kind of thing— I’m pretty good at controlling my feelings, desires, emotions etc. (at least I’m better at controlling my feelings than I am at building successful relationships)

Are you sure the answer to your problem is advice on staying chased? It sounds like a pretty strange kind of relationship you’ve got going there. I’m guessing she’s married and you want her to leave him (don’t worry if you don’t want to talk about it, it sounds like something I’m better off not getting mixed-up in anyway)