The Big Why?

That’s awesome. This is a really a stronger motivating force for me. I really want to be able to strip in front of anyone without shame. A doctor, gym people, spa goers, my girlfriend. My erect cock is great and I’m happy with it. Though Bigger the better but I think if I HAD TO choose between flaccid gains and erect gains, I would choose the flaccid.

Many men find this to be a motivating force. Issue is, most flaccid gains come with erect gains. Usually. And it’s completely random, so it is very hard to get the flaccid penis you want without a larger erect penis. So, mentally, focusing on a larger erect penis usually brings the flaccid goal in line.

This is the method I took.

I agree. Having more matter in ones cock will yield more matter in ones cock. Flaccid or erect. The knobs and levers on flaccid size are confusing and hard to pin down. I am pretty confident that I can ’ induce’ a large flaccid by employing a relaxation technique called autogenic training. After I get up from a relaxation session and I pull my pants down in front of a mirror my flaccid is the longest, pillowiest, fullest flaccid I can ever have. It’s not an erection, nor a chubby, but it’s like all the muscles in my body and including my cock have slacked out and released tension. And it’s pretty reliable. But as the day goes on and tension retakes my bodyand …..back to normal…makes me wonder if I practice this relaxation technique enough, frequently throughout the day I can ‘train’ that state of muscular relaxation into daily life.

I also notice that my flaccid varies with my mood. If I am happy and comfortable and happy going out with my girlfriend. it’s bigger. If I’m stressed and pissed.. it’s smaller.

Quite frankly, I like having a big dick. I am 6’6” and am a grower, not a shower. Flaccid, I was hanging about 4” and thought that it looked kind of weird on such a tall man. And, I am a black American man carrying all the baggage about black men have bigger dicks. I used to work out every day and would see other men who showed more than I did. I thought that I could do something about it. So, I began pumping, then jelqing and saw good growth. Not outstanding because I never over did it. I was thoughtful and careful not to damage “the goods”. I began that in 1994 and did this for about six years but stopped just out of boredom. I began jelqing again about a year ago and found that I enjoyed the exercises and didn’t worry about the growth as much. Then I started stretching my balls and all hell broke loose. It re-energized my desire to PE seriously again, and that’s why I’m here, to learn what’s new. I have begun clamping, which I think is a great practice. In the last month, I have gained a good girth I wanted but still would like more. That along with stretching my balls have given me the look that I’ve always wanted but like most of men who practice PE and BS, it becomes addictive. I strongly suggest that if you’re new to PE that you have a “goal” in mind to curb the addiction to just “maintaining the gains”. I’m pretty happy with my results. If I was smart enough to take pictures when I began some 20 years ago, it would prove my point. Plus, like most of you believe, it’s does improve the health of the penis. I am absolutely sure of this. I have stronger erections, good ejaculations and a nice big, thick dick and not worried about pissing in a public bathroom.

Basically I’m better with PE than without it. I did PE previously and stoped after a short period, wish I never stoped cause I’m better with it.
Main reasons would be: helps proformance and lasting power in the bed room.
Wouldn’t mind the benifits of being bigger in length and girth.
I’ve always been more of a grower and would like to be more towards a shower.

So basically my reasons are: increased size - flaccid and hard, performance and general sexual health.
I love pleasing my partner before my own needs and that drives me to be the best I can be sexually.

As a-unit already confirmed, yes, your flaccid will also improve vastly.
Before I always had second thoughts about showering in public places but now it feels like I just wanna ‘show off’ in a subtle way and I have zero issues with just whipping it out.
Even did so the last time I went out drinking with my baby brother, I just opened my zipper and showed it to this girl I was trying to get home with me and let’s just say I got it in that night.

That’s the way I am too if I’m really into the woman.

Thank you. Those few word, has given me a bit of hope again. I was beginning g to get discouraged. Took my stats again last night and it appears I was getting smaller. Did you manage to increase you flaccid length by stretching. I’m not into wearing and extender.

How about because it just looks fricken awesome!

+1

Because I like the feel of my big thick morning wood bursting with life, saluting me every time I start the day. The bigger and thicker, the better! There is something so deeply rooted in the confidence and happiness of a man to feel the strength and vitality of his own body. Not that this is a cure or a way to compensate for other areas (lol compensating using a big dick like a sports car) but all things being the same. Having a bigger dick makes me happier.

I am listening to Prof. Jordan Peterson’s lectures on ‘Maps of Meaning’.

One of the things that aparrenltly makes people lives meaningful is having goals and working towards them. The attainment of the goal gives you neurological rewards(dopamine) as you would expect. But what is less obvious is that pursuing a goal and making meaningful progress towards it ‘the journey’ gives you continuous dopamine kicks along the way making you feel happier and more satisfied with yourself and your life.

I have definitely found this with PE. The daily practice, strategy, seeing progress keep me in a very positive state. So much in fact that if I could snap my fingers and have a 8x6 tomorrow giving up the journey, I don’t know if I would. …Well… I am only a man ;)

When i set a goal for myself i go at it 1000% and some times burn myself out i need to learn a happy medium and just go at a normal pace. Ive had this issue my entire life my goals comsume my everyday living and i end up burned out and never complete my goal. Im trying ao hard to change the pace but its hard with my mineset. If any of yall have any suggestions please let me know.

Thanks

No one has the same reason as the dragon in kavemonster’s post above? So they can eat their own ‘tail’… :rolling:

At what point do you burn out? When you are putting in what you think is incredible effort but not achieving what you think you should fast enough?