That's it- no more PE for me.

So I’m sitting around last night working on a beer buzz, and my wife and I are talking and making dinner when, seemingly out of nowhere, she says “you better not be enlarging anything down there!”.

She was serious.

I’m not even sure what we were talking about but it WASN’T PE. This took me completely by surprise and I muttered something like “I’m not, why did you mention that, Thunders is just a male health site, blah blah blah”. She wasn’t convinced.

I must say, this is a huge disappointment for me. It’s not like I want a “Size Queen” for a wife, but I sooooooo want a big dick and I want her to want it too. And if I can’t brag and show it off to her, what the fuck am I doing this for anyway?

I think I know why she feels this way. When we were younger I used to really try to tear it up (part of my insecurity), and when I was on Testosterone she wouldn’t walk right for hours. But I have also seen her sit down hard on a 9 inch dildo and coo appreciatively (that messed me up!).

The thing is, I have finally been gaining length ,thanks to Thunders, and I can’t stop now. I am dick obsessed and won’t be happy until it touches the eight inch mark.

Has anyone screwed up a relationship with PE?

Maldo

I think that your wife is probably feeling insecure because she is worried that other women might become interested in you if you have a larger penis. It is her problem, not yours.

yes i also think so

Agreed. Its your dick and she’s so insecure that she doesn’t want you to feel any better about yourself because the possibility of women looking at you will be greater. Do it for yourself, she’s not your mother. I wouldn’t have said this if you hadn’t have said that she can take that 9” dildo no problem. She said that for selfish reasons. Give me one good reason why you would stop the person you love the most from self-improvement, and I’ll leave you alone. She just wants her Big Mac(dildo), AND have a happy meal on the side(your dick). lol

I also agree. Any chica that has the potential to “coo” with her snatch plugged up with a 9 incher doesn’t have any legitimate reason to worry about your enlargement to, say 8 inches, other than her own insecurities. Her deal, not yours. And hey, whose body is it anyway?

Why did you tell her about Thunder’s Place?

I like the responses so far- I hadn’t thought of those things.

I didn’t exactly tell her, Rider, but she figured out I was posting here. She probably looked in out of curiosity.

Thanks guys.

If I had a wife or something that was always using my computer I would use a different browser for thunders. I would let her use IE just like everyone just lazily does and then have my own Safari, Firefox, or Opera (with no icon on desktop or anything like that) set up so history not stored and have to type in URL. I’d think having your wife or gf know about Thunders can pretty much only be bad.

I disagree with the opinions above that your wife is simply jealous. You gave a perfectly adequate reason for her not wanting you to do PE in your initial post above—that you have been less than gentle with her during sex in the past.

She is concerned about becoming physically injured by you. But, more important, she doesn’t trust you to be gentle with her. I’m speculating here, but I think she may also dislike the way you approach the whole matter of masculinity and penis size. She may think your ego is too into it, and she’s afraid of the arrogance and insensitivity that might follow any gains that you achieve.

If you want to continue with PE and keep your marriage running happily, I suggest you go to work earning her trust. Also try marketing the idea of a larger penis to her. Find ways to suggest it as a benefit for her, not merely as an ego trip for you. From the way this is going so far, however, it looks like you have an uphill battle.

Jafar_t said it. It’s the reason why a lot of men don’t want there wives to get a breast job. It would make her more attractive to other men.

Just more evidence that unless you’re really small a woman doesn’t care how big you are. I think we do this for ourselves. Not for them. If we did it for them we would do tongue strengthen and quickness exercises to be able to lick there clit faster.

Hey that gives me an idea. Might want to Google that one.

Agreed, ignore the other guys who say she will be jealous, that is just absurd. Women honestly don’t like big dicks, that is just a total misconception. Having a big dick is entirely for the male alone, for himself or to show off his masculinity to other guys.

Sorry dude, but my fiance’ makes no secret of the fact she likes a bigger one. Obviously there is a limit but she likes being “filled up” as she puts it. If a woman is unusually small and feels filled up with 5x1 then that’s all she’ll probably want. However, most women can acommodate larger and, barring the sex being rough, would enjoy it and want it.

During a discussion the typical “but I thought size doesn’t matter” was thrown in and she said “That’s what women say to guys with small dicks.”

Maybe a bigger dick is just a sign of being more masculine and dominant. A desire that women are hardwired with. Bigger, stronger, faster. This is sexy to a woman.

I think the guys above nail the two reasons she might not like your PEing: (1) brutal sexing in the past; (2) suspicions that you must be trying to make yourself more attractive to other women (i.e., planning an affair), since she has not expressed a desire that your dick be bigger.

It doesn’t sound like you’re planning to brutalize her with your new dick, nor does it sound like you’re interested in anyone else, so I think both of these concerns can be alleviated through a calm discussion of why the idea of PE is bothering her. Listen attentively and be understanding and reassuring, and I think she’ll be okay with your new hobby.

Good point. That is why we don’t like to tell the SO about our PE escapades. It’s like others say, she thinks that if you get a bigger dick other women will be intereted in you. Grow your dick unknown to her, I don’t think it is that hard. It’s your dick so do what you want to.