Luvdadus, 10x7, braker and hang10: I’m not so sure it is a matter of female insecurity or a control issue. Perhaps in some cases it is as every relationship is different.
My wife does not try to control what I do, or anything like that. I guess if anything, I wish I could get more input and enthusiasm from her, since she is one of the two main beneficiaries of my efforts. In my case, It’s the so-what syndrome.
I’m glad 10x7 went through the “hell” to get “approval.” I laughed when I read his experience. It sounded like someone going to his boss for approval for something. 10x7’s sessions will be better with “approval” that without.
As Jelktoid and Ledzep eluded to, “She is not crazy about it, but goes along with it.” This is exactly my situation. I wish I could understand why she doesn’t understand. Better communication? I’m trying.
Its funny how so many of us are making gains, improving performance, etc. and our ladies are not willing to acknowledge the progress. Im4tunate2 has made great gains, makes his wife come 8 times, with little comment from her. What gives?
Along: Hang in there man. There may be some point in time when you will be able to share your program with her, and maybe even get one more on your team!
To those husbands/partners that have not told your significant other: What pain is worse? Getting caught, or just butching up and telling them now?
I prefer to ask for permission, not for forgiveness.
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