I know exactly where you’re coming from. In my youth I was 6-3 1/2 and about 255 - ripped to ribbons. Huge hands, huge feet - no huge meat (6.5 x 5.2). I got the same reactions from women - they’d look at my body size & muscles, my big hands & feet and would say things like, “Mmmmmmmm, I bet you have quite a treat for the women!” etc., etc.
I’d just think, “Oh shit.” :(
After coming here, I realized that a lot of guys would like to be 6.5 x 5.2 (especially pre-PE), but my dick looked like a french fry in my hand. To be honest, I liked the pussy (loved it, actually), and I had my fair share - but I could never quite shake the complex. And I clearly avoided the obvious “Size Queens.” But I could never shake the idea that many women suspected I’d be 8.5 - 9.5” or so, making my 6.5” seem hopelessly inadequate (despite the clearly good sex I’d enjoy - but that’s where our self-perception/body image distortion comes into play, psychologically).
I’m now 7.5 x 6+, but I’m still not happy (could be in part because I’m fat now, so I know I don’t have the body I used to - not by a long shot).
I think that 8.5” mild BP, would make me feel more comfortable.
Oooohhhh, but another inch, Horatio, another freakin’ inch.