Social Acceptability of PE

How socially open about PE are you?

After the first two months of my PE career, I’ve become a bit obsessed. I’ve seen some impressive early gains and can’t stop thinking about growing my dick. All day at work my mind wonders and ponders the possibilities.

During my 15-minute break at work this morning a co-worker asked me what I did this weekend. I almost said, “Spent all day hanging weights from my dick.” Several other times while talking with really close friends I almost mentioned it, but didn’t want to deal with any unwanted skepticism or ribbing.

Based on my own thoughts before I started, I imagine most people don’t believe in PE. However, I would venture to say most men want to believe in it. We’re all here, right?

People diet and lift weights as a means to enhance their body, stay healthy and boost their self-image. PE should be no different. If all men started PE’ing in their 20s, we probably wouldn’t need so much viagra and the divorce rate would drop in half.

So how socially open about PE are you? Do you talk about it with your friends? Just curious to see how everyone else deals with it.

hi there stevie31,

well im not so new in this pe stuff but since the first time i knew about it, i never talked about it with anyone else except with the guys from this forum.

i don’t feel free to talk about pe with my buddy although i really wanted to. well humiliate about my penis size that holds me not to talk it with my other friends, but on the other side, i really want to talk about it.

i think its nice to have a real friend, like a pe buddy or so, but in the meantime i think virtual pe buddy works OK.:)

stevie31, why do you think that widespread PE would cause divorce rates to lower?

More PE time=less time to fight with spouse=marital bliss:) . Naw, seriously doubt that one. I roll with women whose ex-husands had much larger dicks (purportedly) and better bodies than I do. Marriage is just a bitch in the modern scheme of things for most folks. Lots of people make mistakes when they are young what they want in a spouse later in life changes as well. Never married yet, just what I hear and see.

As far as discussing PE openly anywhere, I never have in detail. Just never really seems appropriate and don’t really want to be an answer/explanation man on this stuff off the internet. I have had conversations about pills and some of the commercials from time to time, but I never alluded to much knowledge beyond my skeptism of the commercials. I really believe that such information is better for folks to find on there own if the interest prevails. Certainly wouldn’t want to give anyone anxiety or a complex about their size in casual conversation, I offend enough individuals discussing common topics. groa

stevie31,

I don’t think the main stream is ready for PE. America is a society that expects instant gratification, we expect everything now without having to work for any thing. Any type of PE (Physical Exercise, Penis Enlargement) is generally thought of as to hard or will take to long to accomplish, and really doesn’t work. That’s why all these pill pushers are making a bundle off of this mentality.

later…

Just kidding about the divorce rate dropping, I was being facetious. :)

You’re 100% right about the instant gratification, however, there are millions of men who do work out and know that it takes time. These are the individuals I would choose to share PE info with.

I’m a very open person and always want to help my friends by sharing any knowledge I have. I wish one of my good friends would have told me about PE years ago.

Anyone else feel this way?

Hmmm..maybe only after I reached my goal, I was married, and was a true man of God. Only then would I be completely and totally secure enough to share my secret with friends.

I have spoken to a few friends about this kind of thing before. PE that is…

Only one person out of about 3 had any interest at all, and I don’t know if he went any further other than to seem interested and question me a bit about it in disbelief :D

In general, normal people don’t believe, or don’t care.

Also I have discovered talking about dick stuff is not a good idea amongst friends, unless they are very stable friends. I had one guy go a bit obsessive over my size and was asking me about it and telling people about it all the time. That was a real nightmare.

I don’t think that the majority of people is ready for PE. Just think about BB and the comments made by some persons. If you tell people about PE they will most likely look upon you as being a freak or something not too distant from that.

Priapos

As long as he is telling Girls about it…its ok by me!!! Spread the word!!!
:chuckle: so I can sit back and reap the rewards! :p

I find that by observing the reactions of those male friends I did choose to confide in, there are generally three stages they go through.

1) Astonishment and Bewilderment:
In this stage the friend will look at you weird and wonder if you are OK. He will assume you have a small one and withhold what he is truly thinking about you. He may even think that you are extremely gullible and make subtle or outright comments that ridicule you for even paying mind to the notion that one can grow their penis.

2) Curiosity and Neutrality:
Your friend will generally enter this stage if you continue to talk about it and provide decent explanations that are plausible and intelligent. This will be followed by heavy Q&A sessions and you will often find that the joking has ceased and he now has a “cosa nuestra” attitude about it while he attempts to learn more about it.

3) Acceptance and Gratitude:
When all his questions have been answered and and he cannot find any rebuttals, it becomes a topic of serious consideration for him and this will usually be followed by questions like:
How much will that pump cost?
Where can I learn some more about this? (Refer him to Thunders)
Will you be my mentor?
In this stage you are looked upon as a genius and someone that has advanced knowledge over the rest of the population. He will be grateful that you risked your reputation by telling him and he will consider himself among an elite group of people that have a solution for a problem that most of the population thinks there is no solution for (outside of surgery)
As a newbie to the field, he will generally refrain from telling others (at least for a while) and repeating the cycle.

Great reply, supersizeit. That’s pretty much how I imagined it would go.

I keep coming back to the thought that if someone would have told me about PE years ago, I could be a lot bigger now. Referring someone to Thunder’s is a great idea. By reading all of the informative and motivational posts from the proven gainers, it might help convince them that PE is for real.

I have mentioned it in chatrooms and gotten great “consternation.” Best never to have mentioned it there.

If you have a close friend you can say anything to …tell him. He will probably accept what you are saying and may be interested in it. You have to be ready to receive it. Closed minds aren’t ready to learn anything about PE.

Also plenty of guys and even grandmothers have gotten dick grow ads. It’s absurd and a joke.

I have had guys at the gym say something to me about my size and I say how big I am and I add I am still growing. If someone follows up with a interested question, fine. If not I am not looking for converts. It’s their loss not mine.

Big

secjay, this is what I’ve found as well. We tend to obsess about wang size - that’s why we’re here. Some guys even came here with 8” or more….so what does that tell you?

I honestly believe that the average person does not put the emphasis on size that we do. That being said, I do believe that a bigger cock carries the potential for more pleasure for a woman - provided that it’s used right. But when I’ve casually brought up penis size (such as a porn star’s), the people I know don’t seem interested. I have to be careful or they’ll really start to wonder about me.

And honestly, look at all the work we do for even an 1/8” gain - that isn’t even noticeable unless you have a ruler handy. I’m as guilty as the next guy. But hey, fuck it….I want 8.5 inches. :P

I’ve told PE to two of my friends, one in real life and the other a cyber friend. They both believed it, and the cyber friend has even registered here. I’m glad that I can share this good thing with friends (of course not all of them).