Agreed. Take it from a man who spent 19 of his 40 years with a woman; and now I’m the “scumbag she used to be married to.” It’s utterly amazing how much shit she’s dredged up from the past, stuff I’d completely forgotten about - but not her.
While all of this “honesty” happy horseshit sounds “nice,” it has it’s drawbacks. Life is rough - keep your balls protected, or they might get kicked up into your stomach. In much the same way, too many guys think they want to know “everything” about their sweetheart. But when they find out too much, they want to cry. Nobody’s a saint, nobody is all-good. Protect yourself.
This is the TRUTH dude!
This needs to be branded in every guys head:
Life is rough - keep your balls protected