Roots of penis size desire?

Where do we think this desire comes from. In rational terms if a penis delivers the xy chromosomes among other things why does it matter if it is 1 or 2 inches longer?
Ok were told a lot of women prefer big penises but are we to believe that nature in its infinite wisdom if looked at from a darwinist evolutionary perspective has not evolved to offer the female of our species what she craves - a larger dong.
I like having a big dong but it seems hard for me to believe that most women prefer this when according to most studies 80% of mens todgers are below 7 inches long. Are we to believe that 80% of women will be left wanting from their husbands in the trouser department? Seems hard to believe.

By having a big dick are we craving the comments made by women - the adulation - the sexual confidence we perceive will accompany a big dick? This bears thinking about.

Is a large penis the ultimate symbol of male power?

Interested to hear views on this?

I just want to hear her scream louder.

Bigger Penises are supplementary. It isn’t what all women crave. Women as a whole do not really care what size a man’s penis is, it is the male who cares too much about penis envy. Women really want a sentimental side of a man.

For instance, a woman falls in love with a man, but he is poor. Just because the majority of men and women love money, doesn’t mean they base everything on it. A woman might prefer a bigger penis, but won’t hold it against the man she loves.

It’s all about my ego. I like beign told I’m big but what I like the most is to hear a scream that she could not restrain. I even like when I have to be careful not to hurt her.

My current reason for doing PE is that I found out that I like a tighter, stronger grip around my penis during sex. At a certain point in the near future she will verbalize what she now begins to feel but cannot understand. I can feel it, I experience her reactions, suggesting it will happen soon.

She will begin by stating the obvious, like “Honey, this is strange but it feels like you have grown quite a bit, it feels so intense, absolutely fabulous!”

Then I will say “I noticed that you feel a little tighter down there, feels lovely. Now, penises usually shrink with age, they are not growing spontanously”. Note: this is a true statement, I hate to lie!

I continue to say something like “maybe it is those kegeling exercises beginning to make you tighter down there, making me feel bigger”.

She says “but I’m not doing them, just a couple of days after we talked about how good it is for future health and then I completely forgot about it. It was months ago.”

Then I will suggest that she probably makes them unconsciously, maybe while she is asleep.

Devious plan. Since she find the change pleasurable, she now knows by “experience” what she can do to further increase the sensation for us both.

I’m working on a good explanation for her increasing difficulies in the BJ situation, that’s a hard one… :-)

Just more proof that evolution is crap.

Nicely put.

If we presume that penii vary in size between individuals, just like any other body part, and that a woman’s ideal size is the same as the biggest that she can take without discomfort, it’s very logical tha the average penis is smaller than the average ideal to women. Anything bigger than the ideal size will hurt, while smaller than the ideal will work just fine.

Who said that nature is wise? I thought it was chaotic.

Do more than 20% of all women have a pair of breasts that matches her partner’s ideal size and shape? I think it’s less.

These are just my thoughts. I might be wrong.

Ok alot of women don’t really care about size but alot do too, I’ve heard girls talking about penis size and I’ve discussed it with girls too, they like big dicks, but you also need to know what to do with it which is most important, alot of girls have said they’ve slept with guys with big dicks but can’t use them.

Sure they talk like us guys talk about big asses and breasts but at the end of the day men like asses and tits.and women like big dicks!

Think about back in the day during caveman times, who do you think got all the sex?

Guys with small dicks and girls with small tits?

Men are attracted to big round breasts by nature partially due to the portion of our DNA that wants our babies to be well fed. Big breasts stir up that trigger in our system.

Similarly, women want to mate with the strongest most dominant/talented of the pack. The big penis signifies part of this, and also demonstrates that a bigger penis will fill her up and more thereby stimulating that portion of her DNA.

Translation:

Men are drawn towards big breasts, almost subconsiously.

Women are drawn towards big penises just the same.

There is a meaning behind the meaning for both of these desires, buried deep in our primal instincts.

It’s kinda the same with muscles, it seems men are more impressed with muscles then women, sure women like muscles but only up to a point. I think the desire of a larger penis is mostly cosmetic, because one might say it looks better, just like having big biceps, pecs or whatever might look better.

And feels better, I’m sure muscles feel better against a woman during sex than saggy man breasts!

And a big dick used correctly would no doubt feel better too

When it comes to size, it seems to me that average ideal sizes (and bigger) are usually possessed by 20-25% of the population. If the average ideal penis size is 8” or more, only 2% of men possess those sizes, which sounds unbelievable. Even if it’s 7”+, that’s only around 10% of the male population. Also, 80% of all aroused vagina lengths are 6” or less from the vulva to the posterior fornix.

If Barbara Keesling, PhD is correct in saying in her book, Super Sexual Orgasm,

‘this small section of the vaginal canal is so extraordinarily rich in sensitive nerve endings that the slightest contact with a man’s penis or sex toy can trigger an instantaneous orgasm so powerful, so shiveringly all consuming, and absolutely delicious that it practically defies description (though the phrase “lightning bolt” comes to mind!)’

… then size isn’t much of a concern if you’re in the average range. If you’re not triggering these explosive orgasms, Keesling seems to say that (if she has an average size vagina) her cervix and uterus is blocking access and she needs to be fully aroused, and she also needs to lift both her cervix and uterus out of the way.

The only “earth shattering” orgasm I’ve ever been able to deliver to a woman was when my dick was balls deep in her ass, and that was only once… I’d also like to add that Barbara Keesling words do not ring true to me because previous to my start of these PE exercises I was in the 8 range nbpel and I don’t remember being able to give girls orgasms that defied description. If someone figures this out then please let me know, I would love to give my wife a ‘lightning bolt’ type orgasm, the type that would insure her coming back for more…

RWG

Hey rwg,

She has to say something to sell her book.

In all of my experiences, women, even if it’s because they’re “ignorant” (hate to use that word to describe it) crave larger penises on their men. Whether it’s aesthetically pleasing, something psychological, or because they really just get off better with huge dicks, they prefer it. And despite how many of us might feel, I know I’d prefer to see a pleased, happy look on my partner’s face the first time she sees my cock than a disapointed one.

Apart from that, as much as it really shouldn’t be, it’s helpful in making a man feel a bit more secure about himself. Not too try and toot my own horn, but I like to think of myself as a “good guy”. I do my best to be chivalrous and respectful of all women. I’ve been called “the nice, sweet guy” more times than I can count. But who gets laid? The fuckfaces with the big dicks. I’m deep in a relationship that mirrors this much too closely for comfort, and I can vouch for it’s authenticity. No matter how much a woman might say she dick size isn’t important, and that it’s a guys personality or what-the-fuck-ever that matters, trust me when I say it’s not entirely true.

To end, I’m not saying that with (a lot of, lol) bitterness; you can’t really blame a woman for that. I don’t find it particularly shallow; it’s just a little upsetting and disappointing that a lot of us guys who, I daresay, deserve better, get beaten out just because we happened to get the “short end” of the stick.

Anyway, after all this rambling bullshit, the point I’m trying to make is that, at least in my case, having a larger penis isn’t so much a question of being that ultimate symbol of male virility. As much as it might seem the contrary, I want one so that when I finally do find that lovely lady, I have everything she wants; not just the “nice guy” attitude.