Rethinking how much size matters to women

What do I think?

I think this is a cross-post from the thread you started last night: Eternal issue

And I think that is a violation of Forum Guidelines: /forum/faq.php? … q_tp_fg_content

Please don’t do that again.

Hi!

Yes, but like I said, I wanted to start a new thread here, and I couldn´t do it (maybe because I was off for a time). Then, someone told me that there was already a thread here. So, I wrote it here.

Either way, my apologies. It won´t happen again. Thank you for the warning. :)

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To add to this eternal debate. From my experience it sorta matters and it sorta doesn’t.
As way of background I’m packing somewhere around average to smaller at 5.25” x 4.5” but fortunately not being the worst looking at physically fit has helped me.

Do some women have an “ideal size”? Sure as I’m sure men do for their women as well. Does it single-handedly drive the direction of the relationship? Probably not, but for some it will while others not at all, as wide of a range of sentiment that may be.

I’ve gotten subtle comments about my size from different girls like “maybe this angle will make it easier” upon first seeing it to “no wonder you’re shy” that was a damper on my self esteem for years.

Even for my current wife who was not very experienced when we first started dating, even she seemed like she expressed some surprise when she first saw my member and before we would do the deed say that we need to figure out “angle issues” (she is very tall skinny-ish girl but also has a sizable butt and legs) which I take as a subtle and nice way of saying she notices a size matter. However she explicitly did say she wasn’t worried about it and we do have a quality relationship/emotional connection outside of the physical (of which involves a lot of foreplay and physical stimulation elsewhere)

Needless to say both of us are happily married and satisfied physically with one another, so again yes it may matter but sometimes it’s like that saying goes “know when to hold em and when to fold em”

I have never had any woman comment on my size, nor do I expect them to. It could be me but for some reason my penis is the first thing that they go for first, no kiss, no foreplay, just straight to the dick. Maybe it is an Aussie thing to do.

Love the “no wonder you’re shy”, badonkcouple. I guess you are average according to surveys I have read, I am not keen on measuring Men’s manhood myself, I just take what I have read.

My ex partner called my penis the lead pipe, it got around the small town I live in and now everyone says “How’s the lead pipe” when they see me in town or they laugh or look straight at my crotch. Lots of women have told me that as far as they are concerned a visually noticeable penis is preferred, but not something that would look better on a horse, and that they actually have found the old saying to be true: Long and thin spreads too thin but short and thick does the trick and keeps the girls happy. I am happy with my size which I thought was average but I now realize is larger than the average erect penis. I am here to see if I can gain a couple of cm, about an inch in the old language which would make me 8” which is as big I want to get.

I’ll tell you what. There is nothing quite as satisfying as having a woman looked shocked when She sees a big cock for the first time . Let alone the look on their face when you ease it in. .. I’ll never forget the look on my wife’s face when she first saw my cock. So yeah size matters. Not trying to be a jerk but isn’t size the main reason we pump!

Size matters when it matters when it matters, and we can’t predict when it will.

Do the P.E. For yourself and if she she’s pleased then good, but we all know some women can’t be please no matter what you do, and they suffer way more than you do because of it.

It’s 2018 men, let’s rock!

I’ve done a lot of reading about this from a women’s point if view…

From what I can tell, size matters to most. How much it matters and size preference vary, just like anything else. Passion, care, confidence, consideration, and out of the bedroom interaction generally counts for a lot more. Yes it is a deal breaker sometimes. Sometimes our own obsessions are the deal breaker.

I wouldn’t want to be with someone who only wanted to be with me for my penis size, nor would I want to be with someone who would leave me because of my penis size.

The whole ‘must have a huge cock to be satisfied’ is a trend that media and pop culture has in-printed in all of us hence so many wanting to get bigger.

And as a-unit wrote do it for yourself as it most likely matters the most to us personally. At least it does so for me, just knowing that I’m quite above average by now does wonders for ones self esteem.

Of course size matters and to many women it matters allot. This forum exists only because size matters. I don’t understand why something so obvious is debated/discussed so much.

Exists because is possible without surgery.

Of course it matters but it isn’t the only thing that matters

I think most of the things that matter are related to status, confidence, and communication

This is like saying does income matter? Of course it matters but it is not the only thing that matters. This is why Russel Brand (actor/comedian, very charismatic) probably gets more tail than Michael Bloomberg (a very bright but rather stoic billionaire).

The answer is that a larger penis always helps but there are many other things that you can do. Be confident. Be successsful. Have good hygiene. Be funny. Be charismatic. Be in shape. Communicate well in the bedroom.

The only thing that we cannot change about ourselves that is extremely important to women is height. The only thing you can do there is make sure you have great posture.

Very well said !

My 6’2” frame moves differently since my dick got bigger.

Socially I used to back down from attractive women but not now. It’s more like a sort of “just wait and see what I have” way of thinking, which they sense.

When I was having a great run in real estate I never had that same sort of energy as I resented even the thought of buying a woman’s attention, while my colleagues always had their wallet out.

Being 6’2” is almost like having a superpower when it comes to picking up women, man. I believe if you’re gay it helps also.

Am I wrong? Almost every dating profile says “prefer tall guys”

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Disclosure: I’m 5’8”. This could be a grass is greener thing.