Reconsidering Goals

Well last night I had a girl over to my place. One thing led to another, and I basically had her begging to have sex. After she pulled out my dick, she demanded we had sex lol. After the first round of sex, I waited a few mins and asked if she was ready to go again. But she was sore, and a little scared. I had asked “sore from what?” She said from a combination of things… “It’s been awhile since I last had sex, and….” I asked.. “And what?” She shyly said “And its too long.”

It turned out, she had been with 9 guys before me, and had said I was the longest she had been with. So this made me think.. Do I really want to add another inch to what I already have? Out of a total of 10 guys, I was the longest. Thats a pretty good precentage at 8-8.25”bp.

We talked a little bit more about this. She said it felt awesome, but hurt at the same time. With some practice, she was more than willing to get used to it. She admitted I had ruined it for other guys, since I was the only one to reach that deep in her. She liked the feeling, even if it hurt at the same time. After I got her worked up again, we went 2 more rounds, and she loved it.

So although being 8-8.25”bp is a great thing, I walked a fine line of what was too long for this girl. Would being 9” ruined the night? Yea maybe. I was already the longest she had been with. It put some things in perspective. If you’re a single guy, I don’t see why you would want to go passed 9”bp. Anything more might ruin your night.

all I can say is that I wish I was faced with your dilemma :)

But seriously, I’d say 8 is plenty, at least that’s the impression I get from most girls (with a couple of exceptions). I’m just aiming for nbpel of 6!

wait a minute.. I’m new here, so I guess I don’t know your history, but looking at your stats in the database, you’ve gone from 4.5” to 8”?!?! Holy crap.

So… have you chronicled the routine you used to get there? Did it change over time or did you stick to what’s listed in your profile (stretch and jelq)?

You may have just inspired me…

Y-guy has inspired most of us to strive for bigger and better things! *pun*

Damn YGuy! You are about right where I am! My gains have been going better but still slow… If I could have the results that you have had then I would be nearing 12 lol.. As it stands you will be past me in short order… Awesome story and gains Brother… Keep it up..

RWG

Funny, this conversation seems vaguely familiar.

found your lengthy (uh, pun not intended) chronicle in the progress reports forum.

I am not the least bit surprised that out of 10 guys, you were the longest she’s ever had. Most of the more reliable studies show less than 1 guy in 50 having 8” or more. I’ve also confirmed with real world testing that even very experienced girls are surprised when they see 8”. Although most girls can take it, it is definitely too much for some. I’ve had one “NO WAY are you putting that in me;” one girl who made me stop after just a few minutes of wincing, saying “My pussy is too small for your cock;” one who asked me to stop after 30 minutes because she had a stomach ache and needed Tylenol; and one who asked me to “hurry up and cum, cause it’s starting to hurt.”

It’s all a matter of your frame of reference. The only reason 8” doesn’t seem all that big to most of us, including myself, is because there are so many guys with much bigger dicks posting here on Thunder’s. I’m sure an Olympic caliber runner who consistently finishes out of the medals in international world championship events feels “slow,” even though he’s faster than 99.9999% of the male population, and would totally “shock and awe” the locals if he entered a community event. As far as I know, there are no Thunder’s Groupies, LOL, so the girls you meet will judge you against the general male population, not against Thunders’ population.

well put, Mushroom. I think you’re dead on. Of course the difference is that I know from gossip while you know from experience :)

My theory is that she’ll adapt if you got longer. That is if you are with her long term. If you’re still hooking up with new women, then 8” is pushing the limit of what will probably be comfortable.

“Never underestimate the size or adaptability of the vagina - any vagina, regardless of age or height or any other factor. They will always take more than you are packing.” - Secjay

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Great story Bro, that’s why I think 9 BP is the biggest I will go. Because even dating girls in there 30’s with kids I can pretty much reach bottom. Like some of the guys said she will adjust to your size and be ready for anymore you add. So is this chick a friend of your old girlfriends?

Rocky, looks like you answered your own question lol

RWG, if I was born with what you were given, I probably wouldn’t of looked for penis enlargement in the first place. ;)

Mushroom, you hit it dead on. Guys here know if you start hanging out at PE boards too often, you begin to lose perspective of whats big to the general male population. Sometimes we get caught up in competing with each other, that we forget we’re really just competing with the general male population. Chances are if you’re pushing 8”, you already have most guys beat.

About adapting. Most girls would adapt to an 8” dick if you’re with her long term, but how much adapting do we want the girls to do? Sex is about pleasure, not about adjusting to pain.

Nah, I’m staying away from any friends my ex gf throws at me. She already knows too much about me. And like most girls, she can be very nosy at times. She already thinks I use a Bib hanger, which she figured out on her own. I have no idea how. I’d prefer to date girls that have no idea I do PE.

i get what you guys are saying about loosing perspective of what the general male thinks the average size is.

I feel that i am going to be the type that no matter how big i get i will never be satisfied and i will think it is small :(