Being the sensitive man is exactly the wrong thing to be with a woman. You need to take lessons from David D. Angelo also. Women are goofy. Unless you’ve picked one with a very high level of integrity you just don’t know what is going to happen.
Although this is going slightly off the topic of PE now, Monty530 is exactly right. What women say they want is not what they actually want. All the women that say they want a guy that is sensitive, kind, caring, “NICE”… how many guys that fit this description do you see with hot women? Not many.
iwillbbigger, the best revenge you could get on this ex of yours is becoming an “alpha male” as David DeAngelo and other dating gurus describe it. Again, I am slightly weary of talking about this because I have come to realize many men take offense to this kind of thing, and the whole “just be yourself” argument usually is the backlash. If your idea of revenge is making her regret what she did, having a big dick isn’t the answer. Projecting confidence and status IS the answer. I know, because I have done this exact same thing with my ex girlfriend in the past 3 months, and she has literally told me she wants me back, and it was so immensely satisfying telling her I wasn’t interested. She dumped me after meeting someone who at the time seemed like a superior partner - he had more money, dressed more fashionably, and just happened to act in a more cocky and self assured manner than I did. Two years later, I act alpha whenever I see her, and not only does her best friend want me, SHE wants me back. It feels incredible.
No offense to any guys who don’t believe in this “learning seduction” shit.
PE SMART - Quality is infinitely better than quantity. Monitor your progress. Make changes accordingly.