Mushroom, did you have many lovers prior to marriage? If so, did you experience much trouble with insertion during vaginal sex with many? Were there any women you simply couldn’t penetrate?
Back then I was 6” at the glans. The only trouble I had was getting a condom over my glans. It was crazy tight and would shrink the glans considerably. I didn’t know any better to look for a larger diameter and just thought this was normal. I think the compressed glans under the condom made insertion simple.
With your wife, since you really can’t take much in the way of strokes because of her discomfort, does it make it more difficult for you to orgasm?
Not at all. The short-stroke grinding is fine. And when she cums it usually takes me right over the edge with her. But the times it doesn’t I just keep the pace and make her cum over and over until I get there too.