Penis Size - A realistic view

With this, saying that a thicker and longer penis causes more pressure to nerve-endings in the vagina, are you also suggesting that the tighter the masturbation-grip you use, the more pleassure it gives? Sounds idiotic to me.
My point being: It only feels better to a certain point, and that point is probably different for everyone. At least I dont like strangling my penis to death when I masturbate, maybe some people do but I dont.

What could be the reason to suppose that the average penis length/girth is not able to satisfy the average female, behind ‘What we think about?’. I think people want to find confirmation of their irrational thoughts most of the time, instead than searching for the truth. Researchers are no exceptions.

There are so many other factors regarding satisfying a woman sexually than penis size.

We see it from the size framework here for obvious reasons, but a woman will give you a million other reasons why she gets turned on, including whether you put out the garbage on time or did the dishes. Even if you are 9x7.

And the hottest my wife has ever been was after a fight we had over her daughter.

Just to make it clear: what I was trying to say, is that the idea that an average penis can’t satisfy the average woman doesn’t make sense at all to me.

I agree. If that were the case there would be a lot of bad sex/unsatisfied women out there since the majority of men are in the average range. My ex came within a minute the first time we had sex and said she’s never felt more stimulated or had stronger orgasms before that. She’s the type who’s very blunt and would not lie about something like that. Plus, I could tell by physical reactions how intense they were. I’m sure she’s been with hung guys before me and never had strong orgasms and yet I completely satisfied her with an average dick. Although she did say that my upward curve stimulated a spot that she never felt before. That probably had something to do with it.

Guys - When we’re talking about satisfying a woman with your dick and nothing but your dick you have to remember that the clitoris is not in most cases getting fucked by your penis! The majority of their orgasms come from the clitoris. (No way around this so what difference is there in a 3” dick or 10” one?) That 3” may be better just because the area above your penis is able to slam up against her clitoris and mash the hell out of it!

Cut her clitoris out of the equation and then we’re talking penis! The G spot will get more contact from a thicker penis and you may be able to control the angle better with a longer dick. Seems simple.

Except we’re talking women here. They’re not all easy to stimulate. Some need to be on the burner a while before you light them on fire. Like a-unit was saying, there best bout was after a spat about her daughter! Obviously she needs some emotional awakening to get the juices flowing! Or she loves making up! I see that all the time. Our best sex is after a fight! There is so much goes on in our heads that I believe for most the sex is 75%, or more, controlled by their frame of mind.

I agree with that too. The mental side comes into play big time with women. That’s why I think my ex’s best orgasm was her first. I felt like maybe she was “the one” early on and made a point to hold off on sex to build a lot of tension. We fooled around and I gave her clitoral orgasms with my tongue and fingers but held off on penetration…and that drove her crazy. When we finally did have sex, I guess the build up and anticipation made her “explode” right away.

Dude, I am in no way saying you are small. You’re not. In fact, you are average, however, there is a video here I think you all should watch. It’s light, funny and might help you all who are struggling with issues of size.

http://vimeo.com/5351854

I decided to ask my girlfriend of all the orgasms I give her which of them feel the best and this was her answer:

#1. Me Cumming inside her.

#2. Multiple alternating between g spot and a spot.

#3. Posterior fornice was just as good but not better than #2 plus it hurts.

#4. Clittoris.

I am 7.5 inches BP and I can only bottom out when she is on top. No matter how easy we go it is always painful to go deep. It’s not just about you & your cock.

Point A is the far far inside of the pussy right?

Really great thread and I especially like the whole porn actors related to the real population precentage.

Hi everyone. This is my first post, hopefully I don’t offend anybody. Normally I wouldn’t post at all, and I’ve been happily lurking here for years, but considering the nature of the original post (which I read and then jumped straight to the last page, forgive me if I missed something relevant) I felt it was important. Before I get to the point of my post I just want to say that I completely agree with the idea that there are many factors involved in arousal, pleasure and satisfaction, for both women and men. With that said, thecrow19, don’t you think it’s possible that your large girth played a significant role? I guess what moved me to post was the idea that many guys would gladly put in years of hard work to get to where you started, which was a main point of the OP. I don’t think there are any studies that conclude 5.75” girth is average.

I had a conversation with a female coworker today that some of you guys would find interesting.

She’s always liked bad boys. Her kids dad is in jail, and her ex is getting out of jail. Both hung like horses, and very aggressive, dominant fucks. She was completely in love with her ex but he was a dick to her kids as much as he was a dick to her, so she threw him out because she liked the way he treated her (as a turn on) but wouldn’t tolerate that treatment for her kids.

Her current man is the exact opposite. Never married, nice guy, on the timid side, thinks she’s too hot for a guy like him. She loved him from the start but from previous conversations I gather he’s either not hung, or just hung less than the previous guys in a way that at first left her feeling it might be a problem for her.

She’s marrying this one. And she won’t cheat on him, ever. She said the biggest turn on ever for her was the way he looks at her kids, the way he takes care of them, and the way they love him back. He loves her, loves her family, and treats them like gold. That matters to her way more than the size of his dick. In a sexual way. I asked if he was maybe too tame for her compared to her exes and she laughed and said “well, he was!” He picked up on all the things that turn her on sexually and hits those buttons, she said its easy to teach a man to be a bad boy in the right ways. After all, if the reward is great sex, what guy doesn’t want to learn to get his woman off?

Take away for me was that even to a girl who has a strong preference for size (she’s said that many times), there can be other factors that trump that. Now, if he were bigger she probably wouldn’t complain. But since its already the best sex she’s had in her life, worrying about it would be like complaining you “only” won 10 million bucks in the lottery instead of 100 million.

Always the same discussion .

One thing is a dick for a long term relation and another thing a dick for one night sex or only sex .